Don't be afraid of offending other people because of some characteristics of your temperament. You need to know that in this world there is not a temperament that can avoid offending other people.

不要怕某種性格會(huì)得罪人，要知道世界上沒有任何一種性格能避免得罪人。

People who speak bluntly will displease a mean person. People who speak euphemistically will displease a quick-tempered person. Benign and uncontentious people who try never to offend anybody will displease a man of principles. Slick and sly people will offend an intelligent person.

說話直的會(huì)得罪小人，說話委婉的會(huì)得罪急脾氣，老好人會(huì)得罪有原則的人，圓滑的人會(huì)得罪聰明人...

Now that people with different kinds of temperaments may all offend other people, you should just be yourself. When you become who you really are, you will not be afraid of offending others, because you can take the consequences.

既然都會(huì)得罪人，那就做你自己，做好了自己，就不怕得罪人，因?yàn)槟憧梢猿袚?dān)后果。