So many people beat themselves up，they did something wrong，something didn‘t go as planned.?

"Oh，this must be，because I'm not good enough!"? "Because I’m not smart enough!”? ?"Because I am a failure.""... this is why these things did't work out"?

The truth is: This isn't correct. Failure has no inherent meaning. Failure out of itself means NOTHING. It only means the things, that YOU attach to it. There are a lots of highly successful people that failed plenty of times. So sure thing: If you fail somewhere, Learn from it what went wrong , But then just MOVE ON!?