What do you talk about? Tell the person as much as you can about what is bothering you. If it’s hard to talk about the problems, let the person know you’re having a hard time. They can help by asking questions and letting you answer. Try not to leave anything out, even if you think it might get someone in trouble.Remember, it’s better to get help than to feel bad about something. There might be more parts to the problems than you can solve on your own — it’s always better to have others help you out.