有人說，世上最浪漫的兩種情感，莫過于一種是愛到開心放手，另一種便是恨了依然愛著。

輕輕地，柔柔的，拾起一枚秋天的落葉葉兒，輕薄的沒有絲毫份量，只有映入眼簾的抹抹瑟黃，任它清晰地脈絡與掌心糾結(jié)的曲線重重疊疊，糾糾纏纏，看不出端倪，亦逃不出羈絆。就像人的感情，糾糾纏纏，少不了的是羈絆和傷害。

我一直都覺得，沒有人值得我們經(jīng)常去流眼淚，因為值得我們?nèi)チ餮蹨I的人總是舍不得我們?nèi)タ?，更別說經(jīng)常讓我們?nèi)タ奁?。所以，如果可以的話，不要用恨去結(jié)束一段愛，請試著，請學著去忘記。因為我一直都覺得只有開心放手，才能更好的去迎接愛你的人，不要因為摘不到一顆星星，而放棄整個星空。

不可否認，失戀確實帶給人很大的痛苦和煩惱，那種挫敗感如同炸藥般讓你短時間內(nèi)接受不了。落花有意，流水無情，短期的痛苦和悲傷是可以理解的，但如果一直沉淀于這種痛苦中而無法自拔，那就非常不明智了。雖然他（她）已離去，可生活仍然要繼續(xù)，不是嗎？如果因為丟失了愛情，而把自己的學業(yè)，工作，人生也丟掉，自我也丟掉，那你還能做什么？

他（她）的離開，不是因為你不夠好，只是你們不適合而已，而且他（她）的離開使你的身邊少了一個不愛你的人，而他（她）的身邊卻少了一個真心愛他的人，這對他來說絕對是他的損失，不是嗎？

所以說，為失戀而痛苦不堪的人，必須學會自我調(diào)節(jié)，自我拯救。雖然愛情不在，可還有親情和友情相伴，這段感情你是失敗了，但只有放手了，你才能擁有下一段感情，既然流水無情，你又何必牢牢抓著不放，讓自己痛苦.( 文章閱讀網(wǎng)：www.sanwen.net )

與其握在手中讓彼此都痛苦，不如選擇放手，開心去迎接下一站，也唯有這樣你才會遇到下一個愛你的人，才能.......

Happy to let it go, to meet the next stop

It is said that two of the most romantic feelings in the world, is a kind of is happy love to let go, another is still in love with hate.

Gently, soft, picked up a gold autumn leaves the balm, frivolous no weight, only wipes greeted Mr Huang, let it clear context and contrasting with the palms of tangled curve, rectifying entwine, you couldn't see, also don't escape from the fetters. As people's feelings, rectifying entangled bound, is little not fetter and damage.

I always think, we often go to no man or woman is worth tears, because is worth us to tears always won't us to cry, let alone often let us to weep. So, if you can, don't use hate to end a period of love, please try, please learn to forget. Because I always think only happy to let it go, to better to meet the people who love you, don't cry because it is a star, reach and give up the whole sky.

There is no denying the fact that love really bring people a lot of pain and the worry, that kind of frustration like dynamite can't let you in a short period of time. Has nothing, running water ruthless, short-term pain and sorrow is understandable, but if has been precipitated in the pain and unable to extricate themselves, it would be unwise. Although he (she) has already gone, but life is still to continue, isn't it? If because of lost love, and his own school, work, life is lost, also lost self, what can you do that?

He (she) leave, not because you is not good enough, just not suitable for you, and he (she) leave your side a do not love you, but he (she) side less a man really love him, for he is his loss, isn't it?

So painful for the lovelorn people, must learn to self adjusting, self rescue. Although not love, but also by the family love and friendship, the relationship you are failed, but only to let go, you can have a relationship, since water ruthless, firmly holding, you why let his pain.

Instead of holding in your hand to let each other pain, be inferior to choose to let go, happy to meet the next stop, and only so that you will encounter a love you of person, can we...

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