正文翻譯

How do you know if someone is mature or not??

你怎么知道一個人是否成熟？

評論翻譯

1. A mature person doesn't try to change other people.

1. 一個成熟的人不會試圖去改變別人。

2. A mature person knows that things will never be able to cause your happiness.

2. 一個成熟的人知道物質(zhì)永遠不會讓你幸福。

3. When you desire self-reliance above dependence on your parents or others, you are maturing.

3. 當你渴望自力更生而不是依賴父母或其他人時，你就成熟了。

4. Someone who is mature knows how to prioritize.

4. 成熟的人知道如何區(qū)分優(yōu)先次序。

They have learned that not every single thing in their life has equal priority.

他們已經(jīng)認識到，生活中并不是每一件事情都有同等的優(yōu)先權。

5. Life isn't nearly as simple as the immature person thinks it is.

5. 生活并不像不成熟的人想象的那么簡單。

6. You have reached a level of maturity when you stop judging others.

6. 當你停止評判別人的時候，你已經(jīng)達到了一個成熟的水平。

The mature person realizes that all of us have different experiences, different advantages, different upbringings, different everything! Another's 'right' could be wrong for them, but perfectly right for the other person. You should respect another's opinion even if you disagree with them. Learning to agree to disagree is a very telling sign of maturity.

成熟的人意識到我們每個人都有不同的經(jīng)歷，不同的優(yōu)勢，不同的成長環(huán)境，不同的一切！另一個人的正確可能對他們來說是錯誤的，但對另一個人來說卻是完全正確的。你應該尊重別人的意見，即使你不同意他們的意見。學會同意不同意是成熟的一個非常明顯的標志。

If you've done everything possible to change a situation, repeatedly failed, and know you did your best, then let it go. Beating your head against a brick wall results in a massive headache and nothing more.

如果你已經(jīng)做了一切可能的事情來改變一個情況，一次又一次的失敗，并且知道你已經(jīng)盡力了，那么就讓它過去吧。用你的頭去撞磚墻只會導致嚴重的頭痛，僅此而已。

9. Mature individuals have stopped seeking the approval of others.

9. 成熟的人已經(jīng)不再尋求他人的認可。

This is HUGE. It is, of course, nice to receive recognition for something you've done well. Say "Thank you" and let it go at that. If you begin depending on others' approval, you'll find you lose your identity by trying to please others instead of yourself. You will be more concerned with aligning your actions thoughts with others, knowing it will be more acceptable and praiseworthy. You will lose your authenticity.

這是巨大的。當然，因為你做得很好而得到認可是件好事。說聲“謝謝” ，然后就讓它過去吧。如果你開始依賴別人的認可，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)你會因為試圖取悅別人而不是取悅自己而失去自己的身份。你會更關心自己的行為與他人的想法保持一致，因為你知道這樣做會更容易被接受，更值得贊揚。你會失去你的真實性。

10. Lose any expectations you have.

10. 不要抱有任何期望。

11. Stopping comparisons to other people is a sign you are mature.

11. 停止與他人比較是你成熟的標志。

12. When you realize what you see onscreen isn't how Life actually is, you have matured.

12. 當你意識到你在屏幕上看到的并不是真實的生活，你已經(jīng)成熟了。

Skye Fulcher
They see beyond first impressions and always know that there’s far more to a person than meets the eye. Everyone has their own story and they aren’t quick to judge someone until they feel they know them.They know themselves. They know what’s good for them and they know what isn’t so good to have in their lives. They understand what makes them thrive and what drags them down. They forgive themselves if they fuck up from time to time too.

他們的眼光超越了第一印象，并且總是知道一個人遠不止是眼見為實。每個人都有自己的故事，他們不會輕易評判別人，直到他們覺得自己了解他們。他們了解自己。他們知道什么對他們有好處，什么對他們的生活不好。他們明白什么使他們興旺，什么使他們落魄。如果他們時不時地搞砸了，他們也會原諒自己。

They probably don’t gossip or, if they do listen to gossip, they are hesitant to bad-mouth someone who isn’t there to defend themselves. They know that problems are better faced head on.They know they have their weaknesses and strengths and play to them. That’s not to say they don’t seek self-improvement, but they know what comes naturally to them and what they find more difficult.

他們可能不愛八卦，或者，如果他們真的聽八卦的話，他們會猶豫是否去說那些不在場不能為自己辯護的人的壞話。他們知道面對問題更好。他們知道他們有自己的弱點和長處，并且利用這些弱點和長處。這并不是說他們不追求自我提升，但是他們知道什么是自然而然的，什么是他們覺得比較困難的。

They are appreciative of everything and don’t lose sight of the most important things. Their family and friends, having a house, food in the fridge, a bed to sleep in etc. Most things else are a bonus and they try to remain humble and grounded.They ask for advice when they need it and they give advice when they feel someone else will benefit from it. They aren’t afraid to admit they don’t know or understand something, and vice versa they don’t judge or demean others for not knowing something.

他們對一切都充滿感激，不會忽視最重要的事情。他們的家人和朋友，有房子，冰箱里有食物，有床睡覺等等。其他大多數(shù)事情都是額外的獎勵，他們努力保持謙遜和腳踏實地。當他們需要建議的時候，他們會尋求建議;當他們覺得別人會從中受益的時候，他們會給出建議。他們不怕承認自己不知道或不理解某些事情，反之亦然，他們不會因為別人不知道某些事情而評判或貶低他們。

They know that ultimately they are the only ones who can really trust and love themselves. They can’t expect anyone to fill a hole in their life or give them the fulfillment and happiness they need. When they get into a relationship, they’ll continue with the passions and interests they have and share that life with someone else. What attracts them to another person is someone who also has a life of their own, with their unique dreams and interests.They aren’t extremists. A mature person won’t starve themselves because they’ve gained weight or give up on something after one setback. They face reality and understand that changes take time and patience to happen.

他們知道最終只有他們才能真正信任和愛自己。他們不能指望任何人來填補他們生活中的一個空洞，或者給他們他們需要的滿足和幸福。當他們開始一段關系時，他們會繼續(xù)他們所擁有的激情和興趣，并與其他人分享這種生活。吸引他們的是那些擁有自己的生活，擁有獨特夢想和興趣愛好的人。他們不是極端分子。一個成熟的人不會因為體重增加或者在一次挫折后放棄而餓死自己。他們面對現(xiàn)實，明白改變需要時間和耐心。

They try to see the bigger picture. A bad day is just one bad day. The problem is if it starts becoming bad weeks and bad months.They are resourceful with their time, money and energy. They know that everything they do now is an investment for the future, so they try to avoid their life getting repetitive or becoming stubborn. If it starts becoming like this, then they seek to change it. As well - they know the importance of money, so they spend it and save for things they really want and know the value of. They also don’t expend vast amounts of energy into something that isn’t worth their while.

他們試圖看到更大的圖景。糟糕的一天只是糟糕的一天。問題是，如果它開始變成糟糕的星期和糟糕的月份。他們善于利用時間、金錢和精力。他們知道他們現(xiàn)在所做的一切都是對未來的投資，所以他們盡量避免生活重復或變得固執(zhí)。如果開始變成這樣，他們就會尋求改變。同樣的，他們知道金錢的重要性，所以他們花錢，存錢買他們真正想要的東西，并且知道金錢的價值。他們也不會把大量的精力花費在不值得他們花費時間的事情上。

They may be mature in some ways, but they always stay in touch with their inner child. They know life is fleeting, so they don’t take everything too seriously. They keep their child-like curiosity and crave experiences that feed their mind and soul.They’re careful with what they say, and also what they choose not to say. That’s not to say mature people don’t ever say the wrong things or don’t get into arguments - but a mature person knows that it’s not worth getting mad over stupid things. It’s not worth the hurt and pain, so they seek to always settle things and get peace.

他們可能在某些方面比較成熟，但是他們總是和他們內(nèi)心的孩子保持聯(lián)系。他們知道生命是短暫的，所以他們不會把每件事都看得太嚴肅。他們保持著孩子般的好奇心，渴望能夠滿足他們思想和靈魂的經(jīng)歷。他們對自己說的話和選擇不說的話都很謹慎。這并不是說成熟的人不會說錯話或者不會爭吵，但是一個成熟的人知道不值得為愚蠢的事情生氣。不值得為此付出傷害和痛苦，所以他們總是尋求解決問題并獲得和平。

They remember the past but they don’t live in it. The mature people I know fondly remember people they used to love, the old car they used to drive, the house they once lived in etc….but what makes someone mature is that for them it’s like a box they open from time to time, then shut away for a while. They know whilst nostalgia can be a beautiful thing, you shouldn’t sacrifice your present for your past.

他們記得過去，但是他們不住在過去。我認識的成熟的人深情地記得他們曾經(jīng)愛過的人，他們曾經(jīng)開過的舊車，他們曾經(jīng)住過的房子等等... ...但是讓一個人成熟的是，對他們來說，它就像一個盒子，他們不時打開，然后關閉一段時間。他們知道，雖然懷舊是一件美好的事情，但你不應該為了過去而犧牲現(xiàn)在。