正文翻譯

What's the point of living if you are ugly?

如果你長得很丑，那么你生活的意義何在？

評論翻譯

Edwin Trench, former Project Procurement Manager at Jacobs (1989-2018) Jacobs前項目采購經(jīng)理（1989-2018）

You live to learn, grow, enjoy life, persevere and do what fills your soul and fulfills your dreams! Now, how do you go about this?
You face your life, take the decision to move on, and do it!

你活著是為了學(xué)習(xí)，獲得成長，享受生活，堅持不懈，去做那些充實你靈魂的事情，能夠幫助完成夢想的事情，這樣的話，你應(yīng)該怎么做呢？
你應(yīng)該直面自己的生活，決定繼續(xù)前進，然后去做就對了！

Lisa Mccutchen
You only have two choices either live or not live , you sound like you don’t want to die but can’t find whatever it Is to stay alive!!you need purpose and a good therapist because god doesn’t make mistakes which means he doesn’t think you are worthless, I believe we are here for a reason because death doesn’t make sense why small children die or why really bad things happen to really good people , I think it’s to learn something for someone, done get it done don’t , when I feel like you I find someone who had things way worse than me and it gives me perspective in knowing my life isn’t so bad, there are people out there with horrible problems , you get out of life what you put into it, life is short and death is forever, it’s a weird thing to think about but you have the control to make changes and make it better , one day at a time ! Please try ! I know you can !

你只有兩種選擇，要么活著，要么死去，聽起來你并不想要死去，但找不到能夠支撐你活著的東西！你需要一個目標(biāo)和一個好的醫(yī)生，因為上帝不會犯錯，這意味著他不認(rèn)為你一文不值，我相信我們在這里是有原因的，因為死亡并沒有道理可言，不然為什么小孩子會死或為什么真好人會發(fā)生真正的壞事，我認(rèn)為這是為了讓某人學(xué)習(xí)某事，該完成的事情就不要拖延，當(dāng)我覺得你發(fā)現(xiàn)某人的事情比我差的時候，讓你感覺你的生活還不是很糟糕，你所擁有的生活就是你為生活投入的生活的總和，生命是短暫的，但是死亡卻是永恒的，這是一件很奇怪的事情，但你擁有控制權(quán)，一次一天地做出改變并且讓生活變得更好！請嘗試 ！我知道你可以 ！
Chetna Chauhan, Research scholar, IIM Rohtak IIM Rohtak研究學(xué)者

1. How do you define “ugly?”
2. Is your definition a perferct one?
3. If it’s not, then why worry about it?
4. Let’s assume the definition to be perfect. Do the people who think that you are ugly, matter?
5. In case they matter, do they love you?
6. If they don’t love you then why do you care? Haters will anyway hate you.
7. If they love you they will find you beautiful. Right?
Hope this set of questions gives you the answer.

1.你是怎么樣定義“丑陋”的？
2.你的定義是否恰當(dāng)？
3.如果不是，那為什么還要擔(dān)心呢？
4.假設(shè)定義是完美的。 那些認(rèn)為你丑陋的人真的很重要嗎？
5.萬一他們重要，他們愛你嗎？
6.如果他們不愛你，那你為什么要在乎呢？ 討厭你的人還是會討厭你的。
7.如果他們愛你，他們會發(fā)現(xiàn)你很美麗。不是嗎？
希望這一系列問題能給你答案。
Jessee Beighley, I have a knack for understanding perspectives so I can normally see both sides 我有一種理解觀點的訣竅，所以我通常能看到問題的兩面性

If you die then you know what happens and that is nothing. However if you choose to live and try to meet people that are similar to you and open yourself to the idea of success and being in a relationship then it is very likely that it will happen. The only thing that can truly prevent you from success is yourself so don’t worry so much and just go for what you want.
Living means you have free access to an almost infinite amount of opportunities and possibilities. That has nothing to do with looks it is true for everyone. All you need to do is to look for them.

如果你死了，你就知道會發(fā)生什么，那你會發(fā)現(xiàn)什么都沒有。然而，如果你選擇試著去認(rèn)識與你相似的人，并且去努力追求成功，嘗試建立一段關(guān)系，那么成功很可能會發(fā)生。唯一能真正阻止你成功的是你自己，所以不要太擔(dān)心，只管去做你想要的。生活意味著你可以自由獲得幾乎無限的機會和可能性。這與外表無關(guān)，對每個人來說都是這樣。你要做的就是去找他們。
Tyrone Mullins, Retired Military 退休軍人

You are a valuable person who is on the earth for a purpose. You have to decide what makes you happy , find a goal that can help you get over your feelings about your lack of worth. Looks are deceiving and being ugly is in the eyes of the beholder. If you don't want to waste your time on your negatives, seek helpfrom atherapist . You have some underlying causes for these attitudes, and its never too late to better yourself. Good luck!

你是一個有價值的人，每個人來到這個地球上，都是有原因的，你必須知道讓自己感到快樂的原因，找到可以幫助你克服對自己缺乏價值的感覺的目標(biāo)。外表是騙人的，丑陋是旁觀者眼中的丑惡，如果你不想在悲觀情緒上浪費時間，請尋求治療師的幫助。你有這些態(tài)度存在一些潛在原因，還有要改善自己永遠都不會太晚。 祝好運！
Robberto van Dijk, lived in Amsterdam住在阿姆斯特丹

Girls always desire the alpha male who is a handsome m***fokkers nowadays with a big wallet and huge c*ck. Sorry guys if you do not have one of these three features life is getting really difficult nowadays. Even ugly girls will look away and will hope you to move along asap. This is the era of the women who are making the decisions and are in charge right now. Unfortunately we depend on them - hence the big amount of singles these days. Only way out is to become rich guys. We have to deal with spoiled picky ladies these days unlike our old men. I really envy those guys and the times they lived in. Sometimes, I wish I was one of them, life was so much easier back then.

女孩們總是希望男生是英俊瀟灑的，有錢有大cock。抱歉，如果你沒有，那么如今的生活將變得越來越困難。即使是丑陋的女孩也不會正眼看過來，希望你盡快行動起來。這是現(xiàn)在由婦女來做決定和掌控的時代。不幸的是，我們依賴她們，如今有大量的單身人士，唯一的出路就是成為有錢人。這些天，我們必須面對與我們這些老男人不同的嬌生慣養(yǎng)的挑剔女人。我真的很羨慕那些家伙和他們生活的時代。有時候，我希望我是其中的一員，那樣的生活要輕松得多。
Jion Hynzie Tacsan, works at NCR在NCR工作

Just because you are ugly doesn't mean you can't live your life the way you want it to be. And besides, you're discriminating yourself. You're in a self-pity situation as of the moment as you ask this question. It's only on your own point of view that you are ugly. No one is ugly in this world because the real beauty doesn't lie on your face and your physical attributes. Just because you are different doesn't mean you're an outcast to this world. That means you are unique. I am not beautiful nor pretty nor sexy but I love myself and I am proud to say that I am unique in my own way and confidently beautiful in my heart.

如果你只是丑陋并不意味著你就無法按照自己的方式生活。而且，這是你自己在歧視自己。當(dāng)你問這個問題時，你目前處于自卑狀態(tài)。丑陋只是出于你自己的觀點。這個世界上沒有人是丑陋的，因為真正的美并不在于你的臉和你的身體素質(zhì)。 僅僅因為你與眾不同并不意味著你就被這個世界拋棄了。那意味著你是獨一無二的。我既不美麗，也不漂亮，也不性感，但我愛自己，我很自豪地說自己與眾不同，我內(nèi)心是充滿自信的。
Vaughan Schmidt, always learning一直在學(xué)習(xí)

Yes. Ok well no, it’s not the most painful. But it is pretty damn difficult.
Imagine a race, all the good looking folk get to start on the starting line, whereas all the ugly folk have to start 10, 20, 30 metres or more back, depending on how ugly they are. That race is modern society, and like it or not that is how modern society operates, in general. The ugly folk could still win or place, but they must try that much harder. Whereas the good looking folk have a head-start simply by virtue of being good looking. Some examples: If two people - one ugly, one good looking - with exactly the same personality and experience apply for the same front-of-house job at a restaurant, or tourist attraction, who do you think will get it? How about modelling? Seen any ugly models around lately? Unique perhaps, but not ugly. Ever hear the expression ‘He’s got a good face for radio’? Another example: Susan Boyle. When she first walked onto that stage, she was looked at with derision by the judges and audience alike. Why? Because she’s ugly. It wasn’t until she opened her mouth that everyone changed their tune, no pun intended.
Look, I’m Sorry, I know this answer is not politically correct, and I should be all with the “It’s how you are on the inside that counts!! Sunshine and rainbows! Yay!!”.
that is not what I have experienced or observed in life, IN GENERAL. There are of course exceptions.

不，這不是最痛苦的。但這確實很難。
想象一下一場比賽，所有好看的人都可以從起跑線開始，而所有丑陋的人都必須從后面10、20、30米或更遠處開始，具體取決于他們的丑陋程度。這個種族就是現(xiàn)代社會，不管喜歡與否，這就是現(xiàn)代社會的運作方式。丑陋的人仍然可以獲勝或占有一席之地，但他們必須更加努力。而好看的人只是因為好看而擁有領(lǐng)先優(yōu)勢。例如：如果有兩個人，一個長得丑，一個長得好看，個性和經(jīng)驗完全相同的人在餐館或旅游勝地申請相同的前臺工作，你認(rèn)為誰會得到這份工作？再來說說模特？你最近有沒有看到丑陋的模特？也許獨特，但并不難看。是否曾經(jīng)聽說過“你長了一張很適合廣播的臉”這樣的表達方式？另一個例子：蘇珊·博伊爾（Susan Boyle）。當(dāng)她第一次走進舞臺時，法官和聽眾都嘲笑她。為什么？因為她很丑。直到她張開嘴，每個人都改變了態(tài)度，沒有雙關(guān)。
聽著，我感到很抱歉，我知道這個答案在政治上是不正確的，我應(yīng)該說“重要的是你的內(nèi)在??！陽光和彩虹！好極了??！”。這并不是我一生中經(jīng)歷或觀察到的。當(dāng)然也有例外。

Sarah Lee
I’ve been ugly my whole life. Sure, it sucks. Plenty of things about it suck.
People assume the worst of you because you are ugly. No one cares about your input in school projects as they literally think you are too stupid to contribute. Going to clubs, going to beaches, going outside. Nasty looks everywhere. You don’t get to enjoy life carefree like some other people do.
But I honestly think it could be worst. I know there are plenty of things I would rather not deal with if I had to trade. I think that people often think of things as “the grass is greener on the other side” because they don’t really think much of what the other side entails. Being confined to a wheelchair and being dependent on places having some sort of accommodation for you. “Oh, this building has no access for me! Oh Joy! NOT!” Being in extreme physical pain all the time. Various health issues.

我一生都很丑。當(dāng)然，這是非常糟糕的。關(guān)于它的很多東西都糟透了。
人們會認(rèn)為你最糟糕，因為你很難看。沒有人關(guān)心你在學(xué)校項目中的投入，因為他們從字面上認(rèn)為你太愚蠢而無法做出貢獻。去俱樂部，去海灘，去戶外。到處都是討厭的東西。你無法像其他人一樣享受無憂無慮的生活。
但老實說，這可能是最糟糕的。我知道，如果必須交易，我有很多事情我不愿意處理。我認(rèn)為人們經(jīng)常認(rèn)為另一面的世界是完美的，因為他們并沒有真正考慮另一面真正的的含義。只能坐在輪椅上，并要依賴為你提供某種住宿的地方?！芭叮@棟樓對我來說是無法進入的！噢，喬！不！”一直處于極度的身體疼痛中。還遇到了各種健康問題。

I mean, at the end of the day, you can easily go to the woods away from humanity and pretty much all your ugly issues are solved. You can’t really escape from a lot of health issues.
I don’t know, but I’m the ugliest person I know. Easily. And most days I’m fairly happy. The issue has always been my interactions with other people. So, if I could choose, I may very well choose to be ugly my whole life again. Except I would have spent more energy towards never spending (physical) time with other people. Which is really what I do already, so….

我的意思是，歸根結(jié)底，你可以輕松地遠離人類走到樹林，幾乎所有的丑陋問題都得到解決。但是你還是無法擺脫許多健康問題。
我不知道，但我是我知道的最丑的人。而且大多數(shù)日子我都很開心。問題在于我與其他人的互動。因此，如果我可以選擇的話，我很可能會選擇做一輩子丑八怪。除非我本來就可以花更多的精力來避免與其他人共度時間。我確實已經(jīng)在做這件事。

Anonymous
Despite all that “beauty lies within” stuff you may hear people say, knowing you’re not physically appealing isn’t such a great feeling - especially when you know no one will even bother to ‘butter it up’ and tell you that you look attractive simply because they know it’d be a very ugly lie which you’d see through straight away (pun intended).

盡管你可能會聽到人們說“內(nèi)在美”，但是知道自己身體上沒有吸引力并不是一種很好的感覺，尤其是當(dāng)你知道沒有人會費心去“拍馬屁”并告訴你你看起來很有魅力，是因為他們知道這是一個非常丑陋的謊言，你會很快看穿。

When I was something like 7 or 8 years old I would almost shed tears watching some R & B artist (who was honestly REALLY good-looking) perform - I wondered why I didn’t look as good as he did. Of course I was a kid then, but when I was something like 14 I observed older unappealing people and realized how much waste of life it would be to keep from living life simply because you’re not good-looking.

當(dāng)我大概7、8歲的時候，看著某個R&B的藝術(shù)家（他真的很帥）的表演，我?guī)缀鯐鳒I——我不知道為什么我看起來沒有他那么好。當(dāng)然，那時我還是個孩子，但在我14歲左右的時候，我觀察到了年紀(jì)較大、沒有吸引力的人，意識到僅僅因為你長得不好看而想要擺脫生活是多么浪費生命。

I simply said “Fuck it, I won’t wait until I look good to start living life! Heck, Danny Trejo’s face looks like shit but even he’s more famous & successful than I am.”
So, no - being ugly isn’t the most painful way to live. Life get’s a whole lot better when you finally decide “Well, things can’t get much worse than this.”

我只是簡單地說“去他媽的，我不會等到我看起來好了才開始生活的！見鬼，丹尼·特雷喬的臉看起來像狗屎，但就連他也比我更出名、更成功?！?br>所以，丑陋不是最痛苦的。當(dāng)你最終決定“好吧，事情不會變得更糟”時，生活會變得更好

Qing Li Archer
Being ugly on the inside (i.e. your personality and the way you treat people) is the most painful way to live. Because then it doesn’t matter if you’re a magazine-worthy-model type of beautiful. People will like you for your beauty, but once they get to know you, they’ll either keep you around because of your outer beauty & secretly hate you for your inner ugly or they’ll drop you really fast.

內(nèi)在丑陋（即你的性格和對待人的方式非常丑）那樣活著才痛苦，因為那樣的話，你是不是雜志類的美女模特就沒關(guān)系了。人們會為你的美麗而喜歡你，但是一旦認(rèn)識你，他們要么會因為你的外在美而把你留在身邊，然后暗中討厭你內(nèi)在的丑陋，要么他們會很快拋棄你。

Being ugly on the outside (i.e. physical looks) doesn’t have to twist how you look on the inside. Some of the most beautiful people I know are considered ‘ugly’ on the outside, but then when I’m feeling down and they want to cheer me up they can give the most beautiful smile because they actually mean it.

外表丑陋（即外表看起來）不必改變內(nèi)在外觀。我認(rèn)識的一些最美麗的人在外面被認(rèn)為是“丑陋”的，但是當(dāng)我心情低落并想讓我振作起來時，他們可以給我最美麗的笑容，因為他們是很真誠的。