在中國，父母總是竭力幫助孩子，甚至為孩子做重要決定，而不管孩子想要什么，因?yàn)樗麄兿嘈胚@樣做是為孩子好。

Parents in China are always trying to help their children, even to make the most important decision to them, regardless of what the children really want, because parents believe it's all for the benefit of their children.?

結(jié)果，孩子的成長(zhǎng)和教育往往屈從于父母的意愿。

This has led to the result that the children's growth and education tend to give way to their parents' wishes.?

如果父母決定為孩子報(bào)名參加一個(gè)課外班，以增加其被重點(diǎn)學(xué)校錄取的機(jī)會(huì)，他們會(huì)堅(jiān)持自己的決定，即使孩子根本不感興趣。

Once the parents decide to sign up an after-school class for their children in order to increase their chance of being admitted to a good school, they will stick on their decision, even their ?children ?have no?interest in it at all.?

然而在美國，父母可能會(huì)尊重孩子的意見，并在決策時(shí)更注重他們的意見。

In America, however, parents tend to respect their children, especially when making decision.

中國父母十分重視教育或許值得稱贊。然而，他們應(yīng)該向美國父母學(xué)習(xí)在涉及教育時(shí)如何平衡父母與子女間的關(guān)系。

Perhaps it is commendable that Chinese parents lay much importance on education, but Chinese parents still need to keep the balance ?between the parents and children in the perspective of education as the American parents do.