? ? ? ?怎么樣？看了我給你寫的郵件，什么心情？生氣？困惑？無厘頭？還是單純覺得被誤解了，懶得解釋什么？我知道我的這些評價(jià)其實(shí)是片面的，之所以這么說，是因?yàn)檫@些評價(jià)都是建立在具體的事情上的，而這些具體落實(shí)在人格上也是另一回事，事件發(fā)生時(shí)候的關(guān)聯(lián)思考以及情緒都會影響到一個人的決策和表達(dá)，而且，士別三日當(dāng)刮目相待，那些陳年往事，說到底很難多好地代表一個人，但就那些我印象比較深的過去，我依舊還是給你羅列了123，羅列著羅列著我感覺我在找罵。

? ??? ?How did you feel when?you read?my?email?to?you???Angry??Puzzled? Nonsensical（毫無意義的）???Or do you?just feel midunderstood and too lazy to explain anything?

? ? ? ?整體的句型用的機(jī)翻，我一開始的表達(dá)是以what's your feeling開頭的，無厘頭也感覺沒法翻譯，所以用了Nonsensical表達(dá)毫無意義的，表達(dá)單純我也想不出來該怎么描述，個人覺得用just會比較好，所以把機(jī)翻用的simply給換掉了。

? ? ?? In fact, I know all of my comments?are one-sided（片面的）. I?say it like this?because these comments?are established?on some specific things and they?are maybe?diffierent with your real character. The thinking?of you before and after the things and your?emotion at that time can both effect your decision and?expression.?

? ? ? ?emm，評價(jià)這個詞我一開始用的assess，其實(shí)搜到的更多的還是comment或者reviews這倆單詞，assess更多的還是和evaluate這種單詞放一起對比，用作評估了。

? ? ? ?Instead, there's a saying that “a soldier should be treated with respect for three days”.?So those comments maybe?cant?represent your character.?Those things?are?just something impressed?me a lot.?However, I still list that one by one and I feel like I'm looking for a scolding（責(zé)罵） at last.?

? ? ? ?士別三日當(dāng)刮目相看和最后一句是機(jī)翻的，羅列個123我改成了一一羅列，我還以為給自己找罵會翻譯出什么有意思的表達(dá)，結(jié)果出乎意料得還挺一般哈哈哈。

? ? ? ?就像我郵件里說的，給別人指出問題不是一件討好的事情，兩個角度來看，指出問題的人不一定能把某個人的人性看得很透徹，尤其是我們已經(jīng)很久沒有聊天的前提下，另一方面，被指出問題的人會因?yàn)椴荒芤鈺教岢鰡栴}者的思考路徑，而不認(rèn)可我的言語，而真正意義上指出問題本身是需要討論的話題，你沒有回復(fù)，也沒有表達(dá)自己的看法，我在主觀上最壞的打算理應(yīng)當(dāng)是認(rèn)為你生氣了，或者是你完全不認(rèn)可。不過也無所謂，我提到的那些內(nèi)容是我猜測的我們之間潛在的矛盾產(chǎn)生的要素，但也的確都無傷大雅，我本來就對要孩子不太感興趣，但偶爾會忽然想到，我因?yàn)樽约旱氖芙逃械侥敲创蟮牟粷M，針對教育問題進(jìn)行了諸多的思考，不要孩子的話，我豈不是白想了那么多？

? ? ? ?Just like my word in email, it's not a pleased thing to point out something wrong. I can explain it from two viewpoints.?First, the people who point out wrong maybe cant see?you?so?thoroughly（徹底地）.?Especially on the basis that we haven't chatted with each other for a long time.?Secondly, maybe you'll disagree my opinion because you cant understand my thinking path （思考路徑）.?And?find the real problems need discusssion between us.?You response nothing means the worst thing is that you are angry or you are disagree all of that. But it's nothing to do with me.?（與我無關(guān)）I don't care what I comment about you. it's just the potential elements which make contradiction between us. I'm not interested in child, just feel?that I thought a lot of education of children occasionally.?All of these?thinkings?will be?useless If I don't want a child, isn't it?

? ? ? ?你又沒什么時(shí)間陪我做這些交流，我也在好好陪你和等你呀，你想想，我給你寫這些專欄，何嘗不是一種精神陪伴呢？isfp屬于是精神內(nèi)耗比較嚴(yán)重的人，其實(shí)挺需要這種陪伴的，但我說實(shí)話不太清楚該如何激勵你的學(xué)習(xí)，所以腦子一抽，想著給你分享一下我學(xué)習(xí)上的思考，但你肯定不會很喜歡這種，今天開始繼續(xù)把我寫的東西手翻成英語吧，我覺得這種方法也挺好，就當(dāng)是對自己英語翻譯和寫作的鍛煉了對吧。翻譯下來好累啊，挺花時(shí)間的，今天就翻譯這么多吧~~~~