本人36，證券行業(yè)工作者；未婚妻27，重點高中青年教師。我跟我經(jīng)人介紹認識的的對象已經(jīng)交往快兩年了，彼此感覺都不錯，目前準備結(jié)婚。她無房，我一套全款三居室一套全款二居室，準備婚后生完孩子三居室加她和孩子的名字。但我的工資收入加各種拓展活動收入是她的四倍，我想跟她簽訂律師指導(dǎo)的公證協(xié)議，約定婚后收入仍然是各自的法律意義上的個人財產(chǎn)。但不是AA制婚姻，每個月我會拿出一定的份額用于全家開銷，她也會拿出少量錢款加入賬戶。簽協(xié)議的目的就是盡可能防止離婚被她分走錢，我跟她明說過，她也理解，但總覺得有些見外。但我說這是我的底線，不可能房子加了你的名字在存款上還不設(shè)防。

What?should?I?do?if?my?fiancée?is?not?willing?to?have?a?notarized?and?independent?income?after?marriage??Should?I?continue?

I?am?36,?a?worker?in?the?securities?industry;?My?fiancée?is?27,?a?young?teacher?in?a?key?high?school.?I?and?the?person?I?met?through?someone?else's?introduction?have?been?dating?for?almost?two?years?and?we?both?feel?good?about?each?other.?We?are?currently?preparing?to?get?married.?She?doesn't?have?a?house,?so?I?have?a?full?size?three?bedroom?apartment?and?a?full?size?two?bedroom?apartment.?I'm?planning?to?have?a?baby?after?marriage,?and?the?three?bedroom?apartment?will?include?her?and?her?child's?names.?But?my?salary?and?income?from?various?expansion?activities?are?four?times?that?of?her.?I?would?like?to?sign?a?notarized?agreement?with?her?under?the?guidance?of?a?lawyer,?which?stipulates?that?the?income?after?marriage?will?still?be?their?personal?property?in?the?legal?sense.?But?it's?not?an?AA?marriage.?Every?month,?I?will?allocate?a?certain?share?for?family?expenses,?and?she?will?also?contribute?a?small?amount?of?money?to?her?account.?The?purpose?of?signing?an?agreement?is?to?prevent?her?from?distributing?the?money?for?divorce?as?much?as?possible.?I?told?her?clearly?and?she?understood,?but?she?always?felt?a?bit?out?of?line.?But?I?said?this?is?my?bottom?line,?it's?impossible?for?the?house?to?have?your?name?added?to?the?deposit?without?security.