TED演講:停止在你自己的生活中做一個(gè)旁觀者


“my life hasn't gone from a to b”
其實(shí)生活中并沒(méi)有那么多一帆風(fēng)順的事情.
人總要幾經(jīng)波折才能迎來(lái)機(jī)會(huì)去成長(zhǎng),當(dāng)你把某個(gè)事情做到足以自傲了,然后你才能帶著一種矜持說(shuō)道:

“every single one of us is good at something,you just have to go and find what that is.”人人皆有所長(zhǎng)
很多時(shí)候,也許只是我們自己作繭自縛,不愿意去改變自己和成長(zhǎng),反而哀嘆著機(jī)會(huì)的不足

“stop being a bystander in your own life
stop looking at what you are doing
and start taking part?!?/p>
別再對(duì)自己的人生袖手旁觀了,開(kāi)始嘗試著掌控自己的人生吧。
而當(dāng)你經(jīng)歷了努力和一定的成長(zhǎng),還是有些人或出于善意或出于傲慢的否定你時(shí):

”you can't do something because you are not good enough“
請(qǐng)帶著一種淡定的語(yǔ)氣去回應(yīng)這些聒噪,

“it's none of your business關(guān)你屁事”
累計(jì)的點(diǎn)滴成功可以帶來(lái)真正的自信,而當(dāng)你有理由從內(nèi)心相信自己時(shí)

you can do anything
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