To this day, i'm still trying to figure out how to be a better husband to my wife and a better father to my kids. Because if there is one thing i've learned along the way, it's that all our personal success shine little less brightly, if we fail at family,that's what matters most, when l look back on my life, i won't be thinking about any particular legislation i passed or policy i promoted, l will be thinking about Michelle and the journey we've been on together, i will be thinking about Sasha's dance recitals and Malia's tennis matches about the conversations we've had and the quiet moments we've shared ,i will be thinking about whether i did right by them ,whether they knew every day just how much they were loved, that's what i think about when i think about fatherhood.