1. don't take it personally.別往心里去。
2. the only thing you get is ...你得到的只是
3. it drains my energe 讓我筋疲力盡
4. every coin have two sides: heads or tails硬幣有兩面：正面和反面。
5. ring a bell 有印象嗎
6. have no clue 不知道，沒有線索
7. be rooted in 源自
8. touch a raw nerve 戳到...痛處

Strategies

1. it is not about me. From me to we.
2. give yourself empathy. Speak up.
3. You will always keep your value, no matter other people say.