On my way home the other night, I decided to listen to a podcast just to drown out the chatter in my head, hoping that I could give my mind a break and relax, but unfortunately I failed.

It is said that it is beneficial to have a partner with shared hobbies in a relationship. This will make it easier to form harmonious relationships, does it imply that two people are more compatible in this way?

From a young age, I have always been quite particular when it comes to selecting a partner, with a strict set of criteria such as height, looks, intelligence, strength, musical tastes, and much more. Would you be able to share with me, as a fellow woman, what criteria you had in mind when selecting a potential partner, and if you are currently in a relationship, do they meet all your expectations?

I began to feel a headache coming on, so I went to DEWU，，my go-to phone app, reassured by the safety it provided me, and purchased yet another perfume from my extensive shopping list，as if my inner self was seeking to capture the scent of my aspirations, akin to Gucci Bloom.

Indeed, life is extensive, and one day we may find the ideal person we have envisioned,universe will meet our aspiration that belongs to us, however, how many of us have actually been able to encounter that individual? As people's mindsets have matured, they have started to organise the extensive list, gradually eliminating insignificant items with the passing of time, until only a few core words remain: having the same attitude, being genuine, being open to differing perspectives, embracing tolerance, and bearing responsibility. However, I cannot help but wonder if having minimal requirements when selecting a spouse is actually a wise decision?Is this the so-called compromise in the adult world? Can this compromise really bring happiness and joy? Is this what is called a fit?

那天晚上在回家的路上，我決定聽播客，只是為了淹沒我腦子里的喋喋不休，希望能讓我的頭腦休息一下，但不幸的是我失敗了。

據(jù)說，在一段關(guān)系中，有一個有共同愛好的伴侶是有好處的。這將使我們更容易形成和諧的關(guān)系，這是否意味著兩個人在這種方式下更有默契？

從小到大，我在選擇伴侶時一直很講究，有一套嚴(yán)格的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，如身高、長相、智力、體力、音樂品味等等。作為一名女性同胞，你能否與我分享一下，你在選擇潛在伴侶時有哪些標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，如果你目前正在戀愛，他們是否滿足你的所有期望？

我開始感到頭痛，所以我打開了DEWU，并從我廣泛的購物清單中購買了另一種香水，好像我的內(nèi)心正在尋求捕捉“k渴望”的香味，類似于Gucci Bloom。

的確，生活是廣泛的，有一天我們可能會找到我們所設(shè)想的理想的人，宇宙會滿足我們屬于自己的愿望，然而，我們有多少人真正能夠遇到那個人？隨著人們心態(tài)的成熟，他們開始整理z擇偶標(biāo)準(zhǔn)清單，隨著時間的流逝，逐漸剔除無關(guān)緊要的選項，直到只剩下幾個核心詞：擁有相同的態(tài)度，真誠，眼界高，格局大，寬容，有責(zé)任心。然而，我不禁想，在選擇配偶時的這種極簡主義真的是正確的選擇嗎？這就是成人世界中所謂的妥協(xié)嗎？這種妥協(xié)真的能帶來幸福和快樂嗎？這就是所謂的契合嗎