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What are the most interesting facts about human behavior?

關(guān)于人類行為最有趣的事是什么?

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回答1:
Anshul Agarwal
People let themselves be manipulated by others because they feel they are not smart enough to control their lives. So they let a someone ‘smarter’ control their lives.

1. 人們讓自己被別人操縱，
因為他們覺得自己不夠聰明，
無法掌控自己的生活.
所以他們讓一個“更聰明”的人來控制他們的生活.

Those who worry about ‘What will others think of me?’ believe others’ opinion is more important than their own.

2. 那些擔(dān)心“別人會怎么看我?”的人，
會傾向于相信別人的觀點比自己的觀點更重要.

It is always a fear of ‘What will happen if…’ which stops people from doing something. ‘What will happen if I fail?’ ‘What will happen if they don’t like me?’ ‘What will happen if it goes wrong?’
It requires a lot of confidence to ask yourself what you want to do and then do it. People who are low in confidence look at others to decide what they should do.

3. 人們總是害怕“如果……將會發(fā)生什么”，
從而阻止他們?nèi)プ瞿呈?
“如果我失敗了怎么辦?”
“如果他們不喜歡我怎么辦?”
“如果出了問題怎么辦?”
問自己想做什么，然后去做，這需要很大的信心。
缺乏自信的人會看看別人來決定自己應(yīng)該做什么.

People who lack self-esteem have a need to tell others about their accomplishments to make their own accomplishments meaningful to them. Those who have high self-esteem feel silent inner pride in their accomplishments.

7. 缺乏自尊的人，會不斷地向他人提起自己的成就，
想方設(shè)法讓他們領(lǐng)悟這個成就的重要意義.
那些有高度自尊的人，對自己的成就只會在內(nèi)心驕傲.

A lot feel they are regularly ‘used’ by others, or taken advantage of, or not respected, or discarded or ditched for another, or the like. It is because they have taught others to treat them this way. If you keep taking the shit people throw at you, then you have taught them that you’ll keep taking the shit they throw at you.

8. 很多人覺得自己經(jīng)常被別人“利用”,
被別人占便宜，或被別人輕視、拋棄等等，
這是他們自導(dǎo)苦吃的.
如果你一直接受別人的批判，
那么，你就已經(jīng)教會別人來不斷的批評你.

People don’t leave the work behind when leaving the office and mentally keep going through the events of the day, what tomorrow will entail. They may feel they are free beings in this free world, but in reality they are mental slaves to their company.

9. 人們在離開辦公室時不會把工作拋在腦后，
他們會在腦海中不斷回顧當天發(fā)生的事情，
想想明天會發(fā)生什么.
在這個自由的世界里，他們可能覺得自己是自由的人，
但實際上他們是公司的精神奴隸.

Anonymous
Poor people tend to be more loyal.

回答2：

窮人往往更忠誠.

People who care about others are very sad psychologically.

關(guān)心別人的人在心理上很悲天憫人.

People who watch dangerous dreams are often going through a very difficult time.

做噩夢的人，通常有過噩夢般的經(jīng)歷.

Self-confident people are generally daring and often take risks.

自信的人通常很大膽，經(jīng)常冒險.

Shy people have less chance to be cheated because they do not trust everyone.

害羞的人被欺騙的機會更少，因為他們不信任別人.

Introverted people are more trustworthy compared to extroverted ones.

內(nèi)向的人比外向的人更值得信任.

The more attracted we are to a person, the easier it is for them to make you laugh.

我們越被一個人吸引，他就越容易讓你發(fā)笑.

People who believe in showing off are generally fools.

相信炫耀的人通常都是傻瓜.

Sarcasm make you mentally stronger.

諷刺讓你的內(nèi)心更強大.

People are more likely to cry at night as lack of sleep makes it harder to control.

人們更容易在晚上哭泣，因為睡眠缺乏，情緒就更難控制.

If someone can't cry, he/she is weak.

不會哭泣的人，他/她內(nèi)心更脆弱.

Our brains wander for about 30 % of the day.

我們的大腦一天大約有30%的時間在走神.

We prefer shorter lines of text but read longer ones better.

我們比較喜歡看短文，實際上，長文更好看.

We can only be close to up to 150 people.

一個人，能親近的人，最多只能達到150個.

Around 80 % of the human conversations are gossip.

人類談話的80%都是八卦.

Smart people are more likely to think that they are not smart. Ignorant people think that they are absolutely brilliant.

聰明的人更有可能認為自己不聰明。
無知的人認為他們絕對聰明。

Haters don't hate you. In fact, it is because you are the reflection of what they want to become.

恨你的人不是真的恨你.
事實上，那是因為你是他們想成為的樣子的反映.

The more we hear something, the more we think it is true - this is called illusion of truth effect.

我們聽到的越多，就越相信是真的——這被稱為真理錯覺效應(yīng).

We can love two people at the same time, but never at the same intensity.

我們可以同時愛上兩個人，但愛的程度絕不會一樣深.

People who like butterscotch icecream are people who have more passion.

喜歡奶油冰淇淋的人是更有激情的人.

You can't lie to a person who you love.

你最愛的人，你無法對他/她撒謊的.

Laughter is the best medicine.

笑聲是最好的療藥.

評論：

Fintan Ejezie
Someone not crying does not equate weakness. People have different emotion receptions.

一個不哭的人并不等于軟弱.
人有不同的情感感受.

回答3:
Maggie Hui
Your body language always betrays you.
We are more likely to put our hands around our waist at a self-hug position when we are around people, than we are by ourselves.

你的肢體語言會出賣你.
當我們和別人在一起的時候，
我們更有可能把手放在腰上，
形成一個自我擁抱的姿勢，而不是敞開著手臂.

When something bothers us, we tend to bite or suck our lips.
This includes when we are lying.
When there’s an issue, we tend to put our hands at the side of our hips with fingers facing outwards.
So we take up more space and become more territorial.

當我們遇到困擾時，或說謊時，我們往往會無意識地咬、吸嘴唇.
我們遇到問題時，會傾向于將手放在臀部的一邊，手指朝外.
這樣的姿勢，使我們占據(jù)了更多的空間，變得更有領(lǐng)地意識.

A lot of people tend to move their legs back and forth while talking on stage because of nervousness.

很多人在臺上講話的時候會因為緊張而前后移動他們的腿。

When we are relaxed, we sometimes tilt our heads. However as soon as something bothers us, the head tilt is gone and we position our heads straight.

當我們放松的時候，我們有時會歪著頭。
然而，一旦出現(xiàn)困擾，我們就會坐直身子，頭部頂直.

When we are stressed, we tend to go on our phone.
This is to seem like we’re busy and potentially avoid the unwanted conversation. It also helps us escape from eye contact, and to have an excuse for a delayed response because “sorry I wasn’t paying attention”.

當我們有壓力的時候，我們傾向于打電話.
這是為了讓我們看起來很忙，避免不必要的談話.
打電話還能幫助我們避免目光接觸，
為“對不起，我沒注意聽”而拖延回復(fù)找個借口.

When we are lying but we want to calm ourselves down, we move our hands a lot.
Don’t mistake speaking with a lot of hand movement as a sign of confidence

當我們說謊，但我們想讓自己冷靜下來，
我們的手部動作就會變多.
不要把大量的手部動作誤認為是自信的信號.

When people question us about our lies, we tend to actively reveal a lot of somewhat related information, without directly answering the questions.This is to avoid the source of stress by not answering the accusations directly, to distract the person questioning, and to seem trustworthy as you willingly tell them information.

當人們質(zhì)疑我們的謊言時，
我們往往會主動透露很多相關(guān)的信息，而不是直接回答問題.
不直接回應(yīng)指責(zé)，轉(zhuǎn)移質(zhì)疑者的注意力，
力爭讓自己看起來是值得相信的，這是為了逃避質(zhì)疑.
從而會向質(zhì)疑者透露更多的信息.

When we are stressed, we want to calm ourselves down. Sometimes we put our hands on top of our heads, or cover our mouths.

當我們有壓力時，我們想讓自己平靜下來,
有時我們會把手放在頭頂，或者捂住嘴巴.

We tend to smile when we are happy, even when we are not supposed to. This is because our emotions come before our mind processes it.If someone smiles for a second and immediately stops smiling, they might be hiding something.

當我們快樂的時候，我們往往會微笑，
即使是在不應(yīng)該發(fā)笑的場合中，
這是因為我們的情感先爆發(fā)出來，大腦理智來不及控制它.
如果一個人笑了一秒鐘，然后馬上就不笑了，那他可能是在隱瞞著什么.

When we are stressed, our feet will be facing the door or we will look at the door once in a while. This is because our unconsciousness wants us to leave the situation.

當我們感到壓力時，我們的腳會朝向門，或者我們會時不時地看著門。
這是因為我們的無意識想要我們離開這個情境。

Don’t think that forcing yourself to not have any body movements means that you are mind-reading-proof either, because limited movements is also a sign of discomfort.

不要以為遏制住了自己的肢體動作就能隱瞞自己內(nèi)心的想法.
即使是一些細微的肢體動作，也成為內(nèi)心不安的外在標志.

People who have done power poses are more likely to be selfish compared to those who have done contractive poses. Because when a person feels powerful, they are less empathetic.

采用力量姿勢的人比采用收縮姿勢的人更可能自私，
因為當一個人感到強大的時候，他就不那么善解人意了.

Fun fact: Donald Trump also tends to take up a lot of space to seem dominating.

有趣的事實:特朗普的姿勢往往會占據(jù)很多空間，讓自己看起來很有統(tǒng)治力.

While you naturally smile when you’re happy, smiling can also lighten up your mood when you’re sad.

當你高興的時候，你會自然地微笑，當你悲傷的時候，微笑也能點亮你的心情.

Moral of this list? Use body language to your advantage, by detecting stress (and potential dishonesty) from others, and to feel more self confident!That’s all I got for now. Perhaps I’ll upxe this list once I got more facts. Who knows?

我上面說的這些，是為了什么呢？
學(xué)會辨別他們的肢體語言，探查他人是否對自己不誠實，
為自己謀取利益，讓自己更有自信.
上面的那些，是目前我所知道的肢體語言.
也許以后我還得刷新上面的知識.

EDIT
Well I’m procrastinating from work so why not add more facts that aren’t related to body language.
When you see something extremely adorable, do you want to squeeze it to death? That’s called the cute aggression.Some study says that it’s because our brain doesn’t know how to deal with these overwhelming cuteness, thus builds aggression to get a sense of control… Freaky right?

好吧，我太忙了，沒有更新我的帖子.
當你看到非?？蓯鄣臇|西時，你想把它捏死嗎?
這就是可愛引起的攻擊性.
一些研究表明，這是因為我們的大腦不知道如何處理這些萌死人的可愛，
因此會產(chǎn)生攻擊性來獲得控制感……很奇怪吧.

There’s a theory called moral licensing. It theorizes that when people have done something moral, they feel entitled to do something bad, vise versa.
For instance if you have done voluntary work today, and you picked up $20 on your way home, you are less likely to give that money to the homeless than someone who haven’t done voluntary work.

有一種理論叫做道德許可.
它的理論是: 當人們做了一些道德的事情，他們覺得自己有權(quán)做壞事，反之亦然.
例如，如果你今天做過志愿工作，在回家的路上你撿到了20美元，
比起沒做過志愿者，你就不太可能把錢送給無家可歸的人.

Do you like freedom? Well, studies have shown that we feel worse when a wrong decision is made by ourselves, than when there’s no choice at all, even when the outcome is equal.

你喜歡自由嗎?
研究表明，當我們自己做了一個錯誤的決定時，
我們的感覺比完全沒有選擇時更糟，即使結(jié)果是一樣的.

Your mind and behavior is heavily influenced by your brain formation. So… do we truly have free will…

你的思想和行為在很大程度上受到你大腦結(jié)構(gòu)的影響.
那么，我們真的有自由意志嗎?

Studies have shown that:
Kidney donors have a larger amygdala (area that controls emotions) than average, while psychopaths have a smaller one than average.People with more conservative political views tend to have larger amygdala, while liberals have smaller ones.While extroverts feel energized from the dopamine produced out of socialization, introverts are over-stimulated.

研究表明: 腎臟捐贈者的杏仁核區(qū)(控制情緒的區(qū)域)比一般人要大，
而精神病患者的杏仁核比一般人要小.
持保守政治觀點的人杏仁核更大，
而持自由主義觀點的人杏仁核更小.
外向的人從社會化過程中產(chǎn)生的多巴胺中感到精力充沛，
而內(nèi)向的人則受到了過度的刺激.

We are more empathetic to those who are like us. This includes the similarities in looks, skin, personality, interest, etc. This is because they are more relatable to us.

我們更能體恤與我們相似的人.
這包括外貌、皮膚、性格、興趣等方面的相似性.
這是因為他們與我們更有共鳴。

Do you secretly love true crimes? Or are you fascinated by what a serial killer does? Don’t worry, you’re not evil.

你私底下喜歡犯罪嗎?
或者你對連環(huán)殺手的行為很著迷?
別擔(dān)心，你不是惡魔.

Humans fear the unknown, and by knowing what the experiences are like during these situations, for both the killer and the victims, helps us conquer that fear. When we are terrified, we dominate the situation by understanding it. This is perhaps the reason why people commit crimes as well.
Gotta get back to work now, maybe I’ll add more soon.
Have a nice day!

人類害怕未知，為了克服這種害怕，
人們通過了解兇手的心路歷程、了解受害者的感受來克服害怕心理.
當我們感到恐懼時，我們通過理解它來控制局面.
這也許也是人們犯罪的原因.
我得回去工作了，也許我很快就回來更新這個帖子.
祝大家玩得開心.

回答4：
Miriam Zahra,?
Do you always ask for advice? Chances are you have low self-esteem.

1. 不管什么事，你都征求別人的意見嗎?你可能缺乏自信.

Do you feel lonely most of the time? You need to acknowledge that you have a lot of free time. Still lonely? You crave closeness with people who don't understand you.

2. 你大部分時間都感到孤獨嗎?
你需要承認你有很多空閑時間.
還孤獨嗎?你渴望與不理解你的人親近.

If they are rich, they deserve more respect. People tend to respect those who have everything than those who are struggling financially. But, respect isn't earned by how much money you have rather by how humble you are.

3. 如果他們很富有，他們就應(yīng)該得到更多的尊重.
人們往往尊重那些擁有一切的人，而不是窮人.
但是，贏得尊重不是看你有多少錢，而是看你有多謙虛.

If you keep your goals hidden from others, you are more likely to succeed. As this enhances your motivation to succeed. People shouldn't know about your every move. That way they won't interfere between you and your goals.

9. 如果你不讓別人知道你的目標，你就更有可能成功.
因為這會增強你成功的動力.
人們不應(yīng)該知道你的一舉一動，這樣他們就不會干擾你.

Attractive people are not always sincere. People tend to favour those who are charming but looks can be deceiving.

10. 有魅力的人并不總是真誠的.
人們往往偏愛那些有魅力但外表具有欺騙性的人.

回答5：
Srinath Nalluri
A person has the habit of banging his fist on the table hard when he is angry.
But he doesn’t do that when there is flimsy glass table in front of him.
A person has the habit of throwing whatever is there in his hand when he is angry.
But he may not do that when there is a $1500 brand new phone in his hand.
A person has the habit of kicking something in front of him when he is angry,
But he may not do that when there is thorn bush in front of him.

人在生氣的時候有用拳頭猛擊桌子的習(xí)慣.
但他面前的桌子是薄薄的玻璃桌子時，他就不會猛拍桌子了.
人生氣的時候，會把手里的東西扔出去.
但當他手里拿著的是一部價值1500美元的新手機時，他可能不會扔出去的.
人在生氣的時候有踢面前東西的習(xí)慣，
但當他面前的東西是荊棘時，他就不會踢了.

So if you notice the common-thing here,
When a person is angry— most of the times— he subconsciously knows how to show it without hurting himself.

如果你注意到這里的共同點：
當一個人生氣的時候——大多數(shù)時候——他會下意識地知道如何在不傷害自己的情況下表現(xiàn)出來.

The extension of this behaviour is,You show anger only on people whom you think are not stronger than you and who don’t have the power to harm you back.

這種行為的延伸是：
你只會對那些你認為比你弱、沒有能力傷害你的人表現(xiàn)出憤怒.

For example:When a server is pouring you water and it spills on your shirt, you will shout at him. But, when your boss is passing you coffee and it spills on your shirt, you might not shout. You may even smile ‘It’s okay.’You will think twice before you show anger on someone who is more powerful than you.

例如:當服務(wù)員給你倒水時，水濺到了你的襯衫上，你就會對他大喊大叫.
但是，當你的老板遞給你咖啡時，咖啡灑在了你的襯衫上，你可能不會大喊大叫.
你甚至?xí)χf:“沒關(guān)系”.
在你對比你強大的人發(fā)怒之前，你會三思而后行.

But with people whom you think are lower than you or whom you take for granted, you show it effortlessly. Because you are clearly aware, they can’t hit back at you or that they will come back to you irrespective of whatever you say during anger.

但對于那些你認為地位比你低的人，或那些你覺得不需要重視的人，
你會好不猶豫地把自己的憤怒情緒發(fā)泄出來.
因為你清楚地意識到，他不會反擊你，
或者不管你在生氣時說什么，他都會回到你身邊.

評論：?

Anne Pyburn Craig
I’m reminded of a common meme. “Only when a mosquito lands on your testicles will you realize that every problem can be resolved without violence.”

我想起了一個名言：
“只有當一只蚊子落在你的**上時，你才會意識到，不用暴力就能解決所有問題。”