專注自己
You should be unattached, don't be attached. In daily life it is the same, you should not cling above any words of anyone, the moment you exist and others come to evaluate you, it means that he has placed his attention on you, so having placed his attention on you, what does that mean? It means that he has placed his attachment on you. Life is only 36,500 days, live out your own quality, live out your own value. There should be no residence and its heart, you do not cling to how others criticize you or how others how how to evaluate you ah or how, there is no need, a total of 36,500 days, you still want to how, is not the present moment to enjoy the present moment to do the present thing. I am now in the live broadcast, then I enjoy chatting with everyone, I enjoy the process of different ideas hit each other.?Or redundancy. There is no information you need among the information, is not the ability to refine the information is very important, the rest of the information is not very important, you will automatically block out on it, do not cling to that unimportant information on the top have to do, can not say that we can not do it, have to do it, do it, you will not cling to do it, do it, you will not be in a bad mood, right? Because where is the mood? Where is the mood? Isn't it better to spend your time on more important things? Isn't it better to regret the past that you didn't do well, to be anxious about the future that you didn't come to, and then isn't the present, isn't this moment this moment, isn't that everything? Right? So isn't now everything? Being too kind doesn't get you respect, respect is not something you have to get, you have to have respect for yourself first, first of all. Kindness is not a should or a shouldn't, but kindness if it's still a should, then you're not even close to being kind.