2021.6.5

一、【21.02】

每個(gè)人都有不可告人之事

Everyone's hiding something.

至少黑道的人講道義

At least there's honor among thieves.

二、【35.44】

我也喜歡狗玩撲克的畫作

I like Dogs Playing Poker.

因?yàn)楣酚肋h(yuǎn)不會(huì)下注

Because dogs would never bet on things.

所以那好矛盾

and so, it's incongruous

我喜歡矛盾

I like incongruity.

三、【51.10】

妥善運(yùn)用暴力

能讓人克服自身不足

Aggresion, correctly channeled, oversomes a lot of flwas.

唯有努力挖掘，真實(shí)面對(duì)自我

Tapping into that aggression requires

才能與自己的黑暗面結(jié)合

peeling back several layers of yourself.

四、【1.09.11】

一點(diǎn)也不特別，我有高功能自閉癥

It's not unique. I have a high-functioning form of autism,

所以我很容易沉迷一件事

which means I have an extremely narrow focus

一旦投入心力就無(wú)法半途而廢

and a hard time abandoning tasks once I've taken them up.

我不擅長(zhǎng)與人社交往來(lái)

I have difficulty socializing with other people,even though

雖然我很想

I want to.

五、【1.11.21】

我想不管我們有多不同 目標(biāo)都是一樣的

I think no matter how different we are.

六、【1.21.16】

人生是一連串選擇，都是些常見選項(xiàng)

Life is a series of choices, none of which are new.

最老套的選擇就是當(dāng)個(gè)受害者

The oldest is choosing to be a victiom.

或是選擇反抗

Or choosing not to.

第二老的選擇是忠誠(chéng)

Second oldest: loyalty.

家人優(yōu)先，不論時(shí)局好壞

Family first, good times or bad.

七、【1.21.50】

你以為你不還手他們就會(huì)喜歡你

You think if you don't fight back, then maybe they'll like you.

不再欺負(fù)你，叫你怪胎

Stop picking on you, calling you "freak."

其實(shí)，是這樣的

Well, here's what it is.

他們不喜歡你，也不討厭你

They don't like you, they don't dislike you.

他們怕你

They're afraid of you.

你與眾不同

You're different.

你的與眾不同遲早會(huì)把人嚇跑

Sooner or later,"different' scares people.

你要做出決定，是否要當(dāng)受害者

Victim or not? Make a decision.

八、【1.28.15】

人們?yōu)榱烁鞣N理由自相殘殺

Men kill each other for any number of reasons.

錢、權(quán)力

Money, power…

恐懼

Fear.

九、【1.56.10】

國(guó)內(nèi)每68個(gè)孩童就有一名自閉癥患者

One in 68 children in this country are diagnosed with a form of autism.

你的兒科醫(yī)生或所謂的神經(jīng)正常人怎么看

what your pediatrician and all the other NTs have said about your son—

你說(shuō)什么？

What? NTs?

神經(jīng)正常人

Neurotypicals.

是指我們一般人

The rest of us.

如果我們錯(cuò)了呢？

What if we're wrong?

要是我們用錯(cuò)誤的測(cè)驗(yàn)

What if we've been using the wrong tests

去衡量自閉癥兒童的智商？

to quantify intelligence in children with autism?

令郎沒有不足

Your son's not less-than.

他與眾不同

He's different.

你們對(duì)兒子的期望會(huì)隨時(shí)改變

Now, your expectations for your son may change over time.

或許會(huì)包括婚姻生兒育女，自理生活

They might include marriage,children,self-sufficiency.

或許他們做不到

And thay might not.

但我保證

But I guarantee you.

若我們讓世界來(lái)設(shè)定對(duì)孩子的期望他們會(huì)處于低起點(diǎn)…

if we let the world set expectations for our children, they'll start low…

而且永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)成長(zhǎng)

And they'll stay there.

或許令郎的能耐遠(yuǎn)超乎我們想象

Maybe your son'd capable of much more than we know.

而或許，

And maybe,

只是或許

just mabe,

他不知道如何告訴我們

he doesn't understand how to tell us.

或是…

Or…

我們還沒學(xué)會(huì)如何傾聽

We haven't yet learned how to listen.

——會(huì)計(jì)刺客