04 Authority Figures 權(quán)威人士
? ? In your previous and current lifetimes, you followed rules that were set down by authority figures such as parents and teachers. You may have also encountered intimidating or even cruel authority figures in the past. Perhaps you found yourself in the presence of those who were power-hungry or abusive. These situations can lead you to fear authority figures and succumb to their will in the present.
? ? While it’s normal to sometimes be intimidated by powerful individuals, fearing authority figures can lead to unhealthy passivity. For example, you may feel pressured to bow to another’s rules without standing up for your rights. Or you may develop “conflict phobias,” in which you negate your own needs in order to avoid arguments and disharmony. In some cases, this can lead to a form of depression called “l(fā)earned helplessness,” in which you don’t even try to improve your life.
? ? To heal this situation, fill yourself with self-love and self-esteem, and see yourself as being whole and healed. Oftentimes, just remembering past-life details will lead to clearing and healing.
? ? 前世和今世,你,是遵從父母和教師等的權(quán)威者決定了的規(guī)則來的。而且,在過去,你也許遇到過威逼他人,讓人覺得殘酷的權(quán)威人士。你們可能是被權(quán)欲很強(qiáng)的人和虐待的人包圍著吧。因此,即便是在當(dāng)今社會,也會恐懼權(quán)威人士,并屈服于他們的要求。
? ? 恐懼擁有權(quán)力的人是理所當(dāng)然的,但對權(quán)威人士的恐懼有時會造成不健康的服從。比如,有為了保護(hù)自己的權(quán)利而不做斗爭,卻去遵守別人的規(guī)則的情況吧?;蛘撸銜袑α⒖謶职Y,為了避免爭論和不和諧,你可能會忽略自己的需求。這就會導(dǎo)致所謂的學(xué)習(xí)能力無力感的抑郁狀態(tài),甚至失去改善自己生活的動力。
? ? 要想解決這個問題,必須要有對自己的愛與尊敬,這樣的你才能被認(rèn)為是完全治愈的存在。大多數(shù)情況下,只要回憶起關(guān)于過去世界的細(xì)節(jié),就會去除障礙,治愈心靈。
