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What life lesson did your first love teach you?

你的初戀教會(huì)了你什么人生經(jīng)驗(yàn)?

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Anonymous
Today, exactly 3 months back I broke up with my girlfriend. I ended my one and half year relationship with her. The reason being that she cheated on me with some other guy.
So,How do I feel after 3 months?
BETTER.
It was my first true love and she was my life. She was my oxygen. But what happens when that oxygen supply is cut off?
You PANIC. Either you die or find desperate measures for your survival.
For me it was the biggest setback of my life. I cried, cursed, and abused her.
I felt devastated but most importantly LONELY.
"And then only when we have lost everything, are we free to do anything."

3個(gè)月前的今天，我和女朋友分手了。我結(jié)束了與她一年半的關(guān)系。原因是她背著我和別的男人在一起。
那么，三個(gè)月后我感覺(jué)如何？
更好。
我的初戀曾是我的生命，是我的氧氣。但當(dāng)氧氣供應(yīng)被切斷時(shí)會(huì)發(fā)生什么？
你這個(gè)膽小鬼。要么你死去，要么不顧一切的想辦法活下去。
對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，這是我一生中最大的挫折。我哭了，詛咒并辱罵她。
我感到很沮喪，但最重要的是，我很孤獨(dú)。
“只有當(dāng)我們失去了一切，我們才能自由地做任何事情。”

First few days of the breakup are the toughest. For nearly 2 weeks I could not sleep. I hardly ate anything. I had no friends whom I could tell my condition. All I did was listen to sad songs and watch romantic movies. I literally saw "500 days of summer" 50 times. At that point those were the only things I could relate to. Resisting the urge to speak with my ex was the toughest thing. During the happy phase of our relationship, we used to speak everyday for nearly 8-9 hours. I used to stalk her facebook profile and check her "last seen" and "statuses" on whatsapp (which actually made me feel even worse). On Quora I used to read about breakup stories and life after breakup. Day and night, she was the only thing going around in my mind. I felt weak ,tired and frustated .I just wanted to get over her thoughts.

分手的頭幾天是最艱難的。將近兩個(gè)星期我都睡不著。幾乎什么都沒(méi)吃。我沒(méi)有朋友可以告訴我的病情。我所做的就是聽(tīng)悲傷的歌，看浪漫的電影。我真的看了50遍“《和莎莫的500天》”。在那一刻，這些是我唯一能聯(lián)系到的事情。抵制與前任交談的沖動(dòng)是最困難的事情。在我們關(guān)系的幸福階段，在我們戀愛(ài)的幸福時(shí)期，我們每天都要交談近8-9個(gè)小時(shí)。我曾經(jīng)潛近她的facebook資料，查看她在whatsapp上的“最后一次見(jiàn)面”和“狀態(tài)”(這實(shí)際上讓我感覺(jué)更糟)。我曾經(jīng)在Quora上讀過(guò)關(guān)于分手的故事和分手后的生活。日日夜夜，她都是我腦子里唯一的念頭。我感到虛弱、疲倦和沮喪。我只想忘掉她。

And after 3 weeks my heart told my mind ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!
I told myself that I deserve better and maybe I am too good for her.
I started working on my skills. I wanted to be a better person. I bought a guitar and started learning it. Now after 3 months I can play 4-5 chords and I have developed a passion for it. I started reading novels and answers on quora. I also joined a gym.
I realized that the only way I can stop thinking about her is to keep myself busy. Trust me it helps.
Take this moment as a learning phase. Work on your personality and let the person regret her loss. WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH,THE TOUGH GETS GOING.
The most important thing that I have learned with my breakup is to never depend too much on a person. My mistake. I made her the center of my life.

三個(gè)星期后，我的心告訴我，適可而止了！
我告訴自己我應(yīng)該得到更好的，也許我對(duì)她太好了。
我開(kāi)始練習(xí)我的技能。我想成為一個(gè)更好的人。我買(mǎi)了一把吉他并開(kāi)始學(xué)習(xí)。三個(gè)月后，我能彈4-5個(gè)和弦，我已經(jīng)對(duì)它產(chǎn)生了熱情。我開(kāi)始閱讀小說(shuō)和quora上的答案。我還走進(jìn)了一個(gè)健身房。
我意識(shí)到，我能停止想她的唯一辦法就是讓自己忙碌起來(lái)。相信我，這有幫助。
將這一刻作為學(xué)習(xí)階段。培養(yǎng)你的個(gè)性，讓對(duì)方為自己的損失感到后悔。當(dāng)事情變得困難時(shí)，困難就開(kāi)始了。
我從分手中學(xué)到的最重要的一點(diǎn)是永遠(yuǎn)不要過(guò)分依賴(lài)一個(gè)人。我犯過(guò)的錯(cuò)誤是我讓她成為我生活的中心。

In the last 3 months I have not contacted her, though, I still miss her, and looking at her photo with some other guy makes me cry. However, I have accepted the fact that she is not with me anymore. I do miss those long conversations and hugs. But then that's life. You get things at the most unexpected times of your life.
Remember all this sacrifice will one day fetch you the result,so just be patient. LOVE IS THE BEST AND THE WORST THING A PERSON CAN EVER DO. That's why its called "falling".
In the end I am actually thankful to my ex for teaching me how to live on my own. I have become a much better person now and for me the whole perspective of life has changed. Self growth and personality development is all that I am seeking for now.

在過(guò)去的三個(gè)月里，我沒(méi)有聯(lián)系過(guò)她，但我仍然想念她，看著她和其他男人的照片，我不禁落淚。然而，我已經(jīng)接受了一個(gè)事實(shí)，那就是她不再和我在一起了。我真的很懷念那些長(zhǎng)時(shí)間的交談和擁抱。但那就是生活。你會(huì)在生命中最意想不到的時(shí)候得到東西。
記住，所有的犧牲總有一天會(huì)給你帶來(lái)結(jié)果，所以請(qǐng)耐心等待。愛(ài)是一個(gè)人能做的最好的也是最壞的事情。這就是為什么它被稱(chēng)為“墜落”。
最后，我真的很感謝我的前任教我如何獨(dú)立生活。我現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)成為一個(gè)更好的人，對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)，生活的整個(gè)視角都改變了。自我成長(zhǎng)和人格發(fā)展是我現(xiàn)在所追求的一切。

Because One day she will meet a successful me and regret her loss.:)
NOTE: This is my first post on Quora. During my tough phase, Quora has helped me a lot to recover. I had promised myself that one day when I feel better, I, too, will write an answer. Hope you all like my sincere attempt. Sorry I have kept myself anonymous because I am actually not comfortable (I have friends here) :p

因?yàn)橛幸惶?，她?huì)遇到一個(gè)成功的我，并為自己的失敗感到遺憾
注：這是我在Quora上的第一篇帖子。在我艱難的階段，Quora對(duì)我恢復(fù)提供了很多幫助。我曾向自己保證，有一天我感覺(jué)好了，我也會(huì)寫(xiě)一個(gè)答案。希望你們都喜歡我這篇真誠(chéng)的嘗試性的回答。對(duì)不起，我一直保持匿名，因?yàn)槲覍?shí)際上不舒服（我有朋友在逛Quora）

Amy Zhang
What life lessons have video games taught you?
This will sound ridiculous, but…
I thought Agar.io reflected life.
You start small, and usually, no one notices you much.
As time progresses, you keep working and you grow.
People start noticing you and some try to devour you for their own benefit. They see you as either predator or prey.
You can also help each other out by giving up a tiny bit of yourself (time, energy etc) in exchange for an alliance. (Friendship.)
Sometimes, things don’t go so well, and you’ll need to make huge sacrifices in order to survive. (Splitting to escape a predator.)
The bigger you get, the slower you move. (Responsibilities.)
When you get to the top be wary of “friends”
The bigger you are, the easier it becomes to kill newer players.

電子游戲教會(huì)了你什么生活經(jīng)驗(yàn)？
這聽(tīng)起來(lái)很荒謬，但…
我想《Agar.io》反映了生活。
你從小做起，通常沒(méi)人注意到你。
隨著時(shí)間的推移，你不斷工作，不斷成長(zhǎng)。
人們開(kāi)始注意到你，有些人為了自己的利益而試圖吞噬你。他們將你視為捕食者或獵物。
你也可以通過(guò)放棄自己的一小部分(時(shí)間、精力等)來(lái)幫助對(duì)方，以換取聯(lián)盟。(友誼)。
有時(shí)候，事情進(jìn)展得不太順利，為了生存，你需要做出巨大的犧牲。（為了躲避捕食者而分裂。）
你越大，動(dòng)作越慢。（職責(zé)。）
當(dāng)你到達(dá)頂峰時(shí)，要提防“朋友”
你越強(qiáng)大，就越容易殺死新玩家。