As I Replied in Another Account

The following?is my Answer:

"To think clearly about this issue, the key is for both parties to maintain a consistent understanding and definition of the identity within this relationship.

Firstly, I believe that love/marriage and a DS relationship are not conflicting; the conflict arises between a DS relationship and the concept of equality in identity. If love enters a DS relationship and evolves into a boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic, it's possible that roles could become blurred over time. Therefore, both parties need to firmly establish their positions: whether the dominant position desired by the dominant partner is a 24/7 role or only during the times of play. Then comes the definition of identity from both sides. How do both parties envision the identity of the dominant partner? Is it merely a controlling figure, akin to a patriarch? Or is it a combination of friend, mentor, and partner all in one?

As long as both parties mutually acknowledge each other's definitions and identities and place them at the forefront of their relational understanding, becoming partners and getting married will not negatively impact the DS relationship. Of course, everyone's definitions might vary, but as long as both parties' perceptions of roles and their prioritization align, significant issues can be avoided."

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"The following statements represent my personal viewpoints at this stage and are intended for sharing only. (Due to varying personal experiences, and perhaps because I haven't been hurt yet, my thoughts might be somewhat naive. However, I genuinely hope everyone can approach this relationship with optimism and positivity, and I sincerely wish everyone can find their compatible partner.)

Firstly, I believe there's no need to strive for a high-quality D or S; in my view, as long as they're not fake Ds or Ss, the specific label doesn't matter much. There's no need for comparison either, as with time and more exposure, you'll inevitably encounter individuals who seem better and more skilled. Should you abandon your current partner each time to pursue someone seemingly better and of higher quality? Instead, strive to make both yourself and your partner the best versions."

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"Furthermore, a DS relationship is a mutual interaction between D and S (this encompasses D's protective care, guidance, discipline, and acceptance, as well as S's admiration, dedication, understanding, and complete acceptance towards D). Many perceive that in a DS dynamic, D is the one controlling the pace and maintaining the relationship. While there might be such instances, it's essential to recognize that even the most dominant D is not a deity. Try guarding the relationship together with your D, understanding each other, accommodating each other, protecting and trusting each other. At least in my eyes, this represents the highest quality relationship and the result of joint effort."

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"However, please don't take this relationship and selction lightly; certain aspects are linked to one's character. One's character, whether good or bad, and their authenticity are aspects that can't be changed through one's efforts.?

Nevertheless, do not be discouraged; proceed with caution and boldness."