愛和占有欲，有時候可以緊緊聯(lián)系在一起，在一段新鮮的戀愛關系中尤為如此。

. Love and possessiveness can sometimes be closely linked, especially in a new relationship.

這可能完全是正常的，但是兩者的界限在哪兒？

. This emotional relationship may be completely normal, but where is the boundary between the two?

如何判斷占有欲已經過度了呢？

How to judge the excessive possessiveness?

目錄

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以下五種愛與占有欲的典型對比

Here are five comparisons between love and obsession.

第一，你需要維持相互聯(lián)系，而不需要自己的空間

Yon need constant contact with little

space。

第二，你并不真心希望伴侶成功

Yun don't truly want them to succeed

第三，情侶間的對話浮于表面

Your conversations are surface level

第四，給出太多自我

You giva lot of yourself

第五，沒有長期目標

You have no long term goals