Because I don't know what I want, and when I compare to other people who have things I don't have, I feel anxious right away.

因?yàn)椴恢雷约阂裁?，然后看看別人，他有我沒有，就焦慮了。

A person who knows what he wants will certainly want something that conforms to his temperament and disposition. Only when he pursues these things can he be quiet and leisurely.

一個知道自己要什么的人，他要的一定是符合自己性情，秉性的，追求這些東西，他才會平靜，從容。?