Every year i write each of my kids about a four or five page letter about on their birthday ,about what the year was like, who their friends are, silly words are saying their favorite foods, all the silly things that they do. And a little journey of what the year is like, and it's so fun to see from the first year, now you know, one of them almost ten years old and just to i know that they'll appreciate this, i know that they'll appreciate everything they might have thoughts i was being a little harsh on.