Talking?about lessons, it is hurting but it also means we are growing up.

All the way from high school, uni to workplace, we all have to compete to get the things we really want.

During the time we try to climb up, we encounter the?good ones?and the bad ones.

As for the good ones, we pay a cost to let them stay in our lives and we truly value them.

As for the shitty ones, we say 'fuck you', step on them, and grow stronger.

Personally,?I paid?painful cost to learn how to grow up in the dating culture.?

Just a few days ago, I had a so called?'ONS' with someone I only met for?the second time.

There's nobody to blame as we both drank a ton of alcohol and we did with my fully consent.

The feeling was mixed afterwards and the guy ghosted me like a day after.

I wasn't the type of person who will start to question myself, 'am i not attractive enough or am i not smart enough?'

I tend to be cool on different circumstances, and dump whatever cost me too much.

However, there are lessons that I've definitely leant.

First, don't get attched too much before u know them.

Second, don't blame yourself if things go in the wrong direction.

Third, you are allowed to have fun and start a hoe phase or whatever.