內(nèi)向者如何提升吸引力？—— 做好自己
"IN A CULTURE THAT PRAISES THE "EXTROVERT IDEAL,” INTROVERTS ARE DRAMATICALLY UNDERVALUED — AND BECAUSE OF THIS, SOCIETY IS LOSING OUT."
——SUSAN CAIN
“在一個(gè)推崇‘外向者理想’的文化中，內(nèi)向者的價(jià)值被嚴(yán)重低估了——正因?yàn)槿绱?，社?huì)正在失去優(yōu)勢(shì)?！?/strong>
——蘇珊·該隱
THE POWER OF INTROVERTS IN A WORLD THAT CAN'T STOP TALKING .
《內(nèi)向性格的競(jìng)爭(zhēng)力：發(fā)揮你的本來優(yōu)勢(shì)》
內(nèi)向型人身上非常吸引人的5個(gè)特質(zhì)：
INTROVERTS ARE ATTRACTIVE
BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOU WORK
FOR THEIR ATTENTION"
BECAUSE INTROVERTS PREFER THEIR INNER WORLD TO THEIR EXTERNAL ONE. THEY OFTEN PROCESS THINGS INTERNALLY. THEY KEEP THEIR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS TO THEMSELVES AND ONLY SHARE IT WITH OTHERS WHEN THEY'RE READY.
因?yàn)閮?nèi)向的人更喜歡他們的內(nèi)心世界而不是外部世界。他們經(jīng)常在內(nèi)心處理事情。他們把自己的想法和感受藏在心里，只有在準(zhǔn)備好了的時(shí)候才會(huì)和別人分享。
他們的強(qiáng)烈自主意識(shí)和自給自足的精神，對(duì)隱私的渴望，使他們更加獨(dú)立。
他們不需要指望其他人為他們做決定
內(nèi)向者對(duì)社會(huì)認(rèn)可的需求較少
IT'S THIS DESIRE FOR
PERSONALVALIDATION OVERSOCIALVALIDATION THAT MAKES THEM MORE AUTHENTIC THAN MOST.
這是一種渴望個(gè)人認(rèn)可超過社會(huì)認(rèn)可，這讓他們比大多數(shù)人更真實(shí)。
內(nèi)向者選擇以他們的道德，激情和目標(biāo)為導(dǎo)向，而不是以他人的意見和期望為導(dǎo)向
