正文翻譯
原創(chuàng)翻譯：龍騰網(wǎng) http://www.ltaaa.com 翻譯：zmmyc 轉(zhuǎn)載請(qǐng)注明出處

When did the popular kid’s life fall apart in a few seconds?

什么事可以導(dǎo)致一個(gè)受歡迎孩子的生活瞬間崩塌 ？

評(píng)論翻譯
原創(chuàng)翻譯：龍騰網(wǎng) http://www.ltaaa.com 翻譯：zmmyc 轉(zhuǎn)載請(qǐng)注明出處

OV3NBVK3D
Him and a kid I’ve known since about 1st grade drove about 8-9 hours to visit a friend who had moved away at the time and was feeling depressed. They were going to surprise him and he called saying he found a way to get a plane ticket back to them (where they all three were friends originally) while they were already 14hours deep in a road trip. So they turned around and when they were about 45 minutes from home, they got into a bad accident and he died on the scene. The kid I knew from 1st grade watched his best friend bleed out next to him upside down in his car. He had long hair and the paramedics thought he was a female upon arrival and 1st grade friend said he was desperately trying to tell them he was a boy and his name and to call his family to tell them what happened. He was pronounced dead before the ambulance even took off.

他和我從一年級(jí)就認(rèn)識(shí)的一個(gè)孩子開(kāi)了8-9個(gè)小時(shí)的車(chē)去拜訪(fǎng)一個(gè)當(dāng)時(shí)已經(jīng)搬走并且感到沮喪的朋友。他們打算給他一個(gè)驚喜，他打電話(huà)說(shuō)他想辦法弄到了一張飛機(jī)票回去(他們?nèi)齻€(gè)原本是朋友) ，其實(shí)當(dāng)時(shí)他們已經(jīng)開(kāi)了14個(gè)小時(shí)的車(chē)了。 所以他們調(diào)轉(zhuǎn)車(chē)頭準(zhǔn)備返回，當(dāng)他們離家大約還有45分鐘的時(shí)候，他們?cè)庥隽艘粓?chǎng)嚴(yán)重的事故，他當(dāng)場(chǎng)死亡。 我那個(gè)從一年級(jí)就認(rèn)識(shí)的孩子看著他最好的朋友倒掛著躺在他旁邊的車(chē)?yán)锸а?。他留著長(zhǎng)發(fā)，醫(yī)護(hù)人員到達(dá)時(shí)以為他是女性，我那個(gè)一年級(jí)的朋友拼命地想告訴他們他是個(gè)男孩和他的名字，并打電話(huà)給他的家人告訴他們發(fā)生了什么。 救護(hù)車(chē)還沒(méi)開(kāi)走，他就被宣布死亡了。

1st grade friend came back to school after a little under 2 months with a 16 inch long and about one inch wide scar all the way up the back of his arm. They were in a band together and played in the schools band. Hallways were bleak for months, probably the rest of the year honestly. He sat with us at lunch and tried to be normal but we all knew he wasn’t the same. They were good people, and even though only one of them died, it was like they both left that day because he was never the same. I don’t even think he makes music anymore. I knew them both for almost 10 years when it happened and it was the first time somebody I knew that was my age had died and it was very sobering. You know nobodies immortal but you don’t expect somebody to be ripped from existence so quickly.

我那個(gè)一年級(jí)的朋友兩個(gè)月后回到學(xué)校，他的手臂后面有一條16英寸長(zhǎng)，1英寸寬的傷疤。他們?cè)?jīng)在一個(gè)學(xué)校樂(lè)隊(duì)里演奏。 幾個(gè)月來(lái)走廊一片蕭條，說(shuō)實(shí)話(huà)，可能這一年剩下的時(shí)間都是如此。 午餐時(shí)他和我們坐在一起，努力想做一個(gè)正常人，但我們都知道他變了。他們都是好人，雖然他們中有一個(gè)人死了，但就好像車(chē)禍那天他們兩個(gè)都“離開(kāi)了”，因?yàn)樗鸵郧安灰粯恿?。我甚至認(rèn)為他不能再創(chuàng)作音樂(lè)了。車(chē)禍發(fā)生的時(shí)候，我認(rèn)識(shí)他們兩個(gè)將近10年了，這是我遇到的第一個(gè)和我年齡相仿的人去世，這讓我如夢(mèng)初醒。你知道沒(méi)有人可以長(zhǎng)生不老，但你不會(huì)想到一個(gè)人可以如此迅速突然地從這個(gè)世界上消失。

gothbb
Unfortunately a cheerleader from my school had a 4 wheeling accident that left her in an almost vegetative state. Through years and years of hard work on her part, she''s been able to gain a little more independence. However she''ll never be exactly the same as she was before the accident. It''s really sad and crazy how quickly your life can change from an accident.

我們學(xué)校的一個(gè)啦啦隊(duì)長(zhǎng)就不幸出了意外，幾乎成了植物人。經(jīng)過(guò)多年的康復(fù)，她現(xiàn)在可以獨(dú)立做一些動(dòng)作。然而，她永遠(yuǎn)也不會(huì)恢復(fù)到事故前的樣子了。原本平靜的的生活被一場(chǎng)車(chē)禍完全攪亂了，這真是令人難過(guò)和瘋狂。

-Slugger?
I graduated in 95'' and shortly after, my mom asked if I knew this girl, I said yes, she showed me the obituaries, apparently she was a passenger on a 4 wheeler and the driver was speeding and made a sharp turn which resulted in her coming off the bike and straight into a tree. Died instantly. And that was a big time reality hit to me. Fresh outta school and a girl I knew died.

我95年畢業(yè)后不久，我媽媽問(wèn)我認(rèn)不認(rèn)識(shí)這個(gè)女孩，我說(shuō)認(rèn)識(shí)。她給我看了她的訃告，當(dāng)時(shí)她坐在一輛四輪機(jī)車(chē)上，司機(jī)正在加速，急轉(zhuǎn)彎導(dǎo)致她從機(jī)車(chē)上摔下來(lái)，直接撞樹(shù)上了，當(dāng)場(chǎng)死亡。這對(duì)我打擊很大，剛從學(xué)校畢業(yè)，一個(gè)我認(rèn)識(shí)的女孩就這么死了。

JBgolf28
Developed a conscience midway through college after gaining 50 pounds and losing his starting QB spot. Checked into rehab for alcoholism and made amends with everyone he had ever bullied (which was basically everyone in our high school). I ran into him in my hometown last year and we had a nice chat. People can change!

他大學(xué)期間因體重增加了50磅，在失去了首發(fā)四分衛(wèi)的位置之后，良心發(fā)現(xiàn)，并去了戒酒中心戒酒。向所有被他欺負(fù)過(guò)的人賠罪(基本上是我們高中的所有人)。去年我在來(lái)家碰到他，我們聊得很愉快。人是會(huì)變的！

jarhead169?
Did he win?

（和副校長(zhǎng)打架）他贏(yíng)了嗎？

automirage04?
Three popular kids went swimming in a quarry. Only two came out.

三個(gè)在學(xué)校非常受歡迎的孩子去采石場(chǎng)游泳，其中一個(gè)人溺水死了。

It sucks because the one that died was popular for all the right reasons. He was a genuinely good dude. I was the weird kid, but his locker was right next to mine and he was friendly every single day to every single person.

這件事糟透了，因?yàn)樗廊サ哪莻€(gè)人對(duì)人很友善，在學(xué)校備受歡迎。他是個(gè)真正的好人，而我是個(gè)古怪的孩子，他的儲(chǔ)物柜就在我的旁邊，他對(duì)每個(gè)人都很友好。

toffiie?
something similar like this happened recently to a few guys that go to my old highschool, it was like 1am, they went swimming in the local river that goes through town and one of the guys drowned. he was nice and friendly, but not popular since it was a really big school.

類(lèi)似的事情也發(fā)生在我高中同學(xué)身上，大概凌晨一點(diǎn)，他們?nèi)ユ?zhèn)外的河里游泳，其中一個(gè)人淹死了。這個(gè)人很好，也很友善，但在學(xué)校不太出名，因?yàn)槟鞘莻€(gè)很大的學(xué)校。

his friends allegedly planned his death, but there were no punishments for them.

據(jù)說(shuō)是他的朋友謀殺了他，他朋友也沒(méi)有受到任何懲罰。

SporkFanClub
Was this roughly a year ago near Richmond, VA? Because we had a very similar incident happen.

你說(shuō)的是大約一年前在弗吉尼亞州里士滿(mǎn)附近發(fā)生的那件事嗎? 因?yàn)槲覀冞@里之前也發(fā)生過(guò)一件非常類(lèi)似的事情。

OrchidChaos
I know better then some that it''s best to not pity those trying to get better. It doesn''t help with them moving on. In fact, after my dad split with his third girlfriend, everyone was feeling sorry for me even though it didn''t faze me(I actually thought it was pretty normal) so after everyone was saying stuff like "oh I''m so sorry" and "if you need anything, I''m here for you"which made me feel bad as if I''m just using their kindness without needing it. Then I met this girl(she did know all about the "incident") and I, being my rude self, told her to move out my way since she was standing in my way. Unlike everyone else she just ignored me. When I told her again, she said in a mocking voice "if you really want me to move, you should say please. Just because you had something sucky happen to you, doesn''t mean you get special treatment" I have never forgotten these words. We became best friends and nothing more.

我比某些人更清楚，最好不要同情那些試圖變得更好的人。這對(duì)他們向前看沒(méi)有任何幫助。 事實(shí)上，在我父親和他的第三任女朋友分手后 ，每個(gè)人都為我感到難過(guò)，盡管這并沒(méi)有困擾我(我實(shí)際認(rèn)為這很正常) ，每個(gè)人都會(huì)說(shuō)諸如“哦，我很抱歉”和“如果你想要找人談心，可以來(lái)找我”之類(lèi)的話(huà)，這讓我感覺(jué)很糟糕，就好像我只是在利用他們的善良而不是真正需要關(guān)心。后來(lái)我遇到了這個(gè)女孩(她知道我的經(jīng)歷) ，當(dāng)時(shí)她擋住了我的路，我粗魯?shù)馗嬖V她讓開(kāi)。不像其他人，她直接無(wú)視了我。當(dāng)我再次告訴她讓開(kāi)時(shí)，她用嘲弄的聲音說(shuō): “如果你真的想讓我讓開(kāi)，你應(yīng)該說(shuō)請(qǐng)。不要僅僅因?yàn)槟憬?jīng)歷了一些糟糕的事情，就意味著你可以得到特殊對(duì)待?！蔽覐奈赐涍@些話(huà)。現(xiàn)在我們成了最好的朋友，僅此而已。

ttywzl?
He was an only child, and his dad had died when he was 2. Was really happy go lucky, and he was popular because he was outgoing, supportive, warm and kind to everybody without fail, and although he was friends with the kind of kids who bullied people, he was the first person to tell them to knock that shit off if he saw it.

他是家里唯一的孩子，父親在他兩歲的時(shí)候就去世了。他之前生活地很開(kāi)心，也很幸運(yùn)。他很受歡迎，因?yàn)樗愿裢庀?，積極，熱情和善良，盡管他和那些喜歡欺負(fù)別人的孩子們稱(chēng)兄道弟，但如果碰到他們欺負(fù)人，他總是第一個(gè)站出來(lái)阻止。

When we were 16, his mum, who was one of the nicest ladies I ever met in our small town, was crushed to death by a semi-trailer that drifted into her lane.

他的媽媽是我在小鎮(zhèn)上見(jiàn)過(guò)最可愛(ài)的女士之一。在我們16歲的時(shí)候，他媽媽被一輛半拖車(chē)壓死了。

He dropped out of school, he stopped talking to anybody, and he refused to let anyone visit him. I have no idea what became of him. sorry Jay. I hope your life got better.

車(chē)禍發(fā)生后，他輟學(xué)了，不和任何人說(shuō)話(huà)，也不讓任何人來(lái)看他。我不知道他后來(lái)怎么樣了。對(duì)不起，杰 我希望你的生活會(huì)變得更好。

LowEffortMeat
Stuff like this makes me cry.

像這樣的事情總是讓我哭泣。

sunlitstranger?
Sounds like my best friend. He was pretty much our grades popular kid for the first two years of highschool, then we found out he was doing drugs being our back. He got sent to rehab for 6 months, came back then got sent off again. Ended up graduating with us but by senior year most people didn’t want to do with him besides me and his other really close friends. He died a couple months after graduating from a heroin relapse, his sister told me it was fentanyl, but who really knows. Miss him everyday since he was like my brother. I thought I’d have him as my friend for life.

聽(tīng)起來(lái)像是我最好的朋友。在高中的頭兩年，他幾乎是我們這一級(jí)最受歡迎的孩子，后來(lái)我們發(fā)現(xiàn)他背著我們吸毒。他在康復(fù)中心待了6個(gè)月，回來(lái)后又被送進(jìn)去一次。最后和我們一起畢業(yè)了，但是到了高三的時(shí)候，除了我和他其他親密的朋友之外，大多數(shù)人都不想和他在一起玩了。畢業(yè)幾個(gè)月后，他因海洛因復(fù)吸去世了，他的姐姐告訴我那是***，但誰(shuí)知道呢。 每天都想念他，因?yàn)樗拖裎业男值芤粯印Ｎ乙詾樗麜?huì)是我一輩子的朋友。

White-and-Nerdy?
Guy on the football team sent a girls nudes the the entire football team and a good portion of people in my grade. Got arrested during class. I havent seen him since.

足球隊(duì)里的一個(gè)家伙發(fā)了一張一一個(gè)女生全裸照給整個(gè)足球隊(duì)的人和我年級(jí)的大部分人。后來(lái)在課堂上被逮捕了，從那以后我就沒(méi)見(jiàn)過(guò)他。

captcraigaroo?
Was the girl under 18? Distribution of child pornography?

那個(gè)女孩是不是18歲以下? 涉嫌傳播兒童色情信息？

scooter669979?
There was this kid that I went to high school with almost 20 years ago who was 2 grades ahead of me seemed like "the popular kid" ...

大約20年前，有一個(gè)和我上同一所高中的同學(xué)，他比我高兩年級(jí)，看起來(lái)像是“受歡迎的孩子” ..。

He had a hot gf, he was really funny decent at sports and didnt seem to have issues. Anyways turned out one day his mom came home to him laying in the basement with a bullet wound in his head, I was told he used a shot gun to kill him self but loaded it bird shot, because of this he didnt die. I now see him walking around town and he cant speak anymore and walks as if he had a stroke, one side of his body doesn''t work properly.

他有一個(gè)火辣的女朋友，在體育方面很有天賦，而且似乎也沒(méi)有什么不良嗜好。不管怎樣，有一天他媽媽回到家，發(fā)現(xiàn)他躺在地下室，頭上有一個(gè)子彈傷口，我聽(tīng)說(shuō)他開(kāi)槍自殺了，但因?yàn)樯咸诺氖谴蝤B(niǎo)的子彈，他并沒(méi)有死?，F(xiàn)在看到他在鎮(zhèn)上走來(lái)走去，他不能再說(shuō)話(huà)了，走起路來(lái)像是中風(fēng)，身體的一側(cè)機(jī)能完全喪失了。

Really sad and that''s all I can think about anytime I drive around and see him walking. You never know what people actually feel inside, you might wish you could be someone else because everything seems so perfect but rarely is that ever the case.

真的很難過(guò)，每次我開(kāi)車(chē)外出看到他走路的時(shí)候，腦子里想的都是這個(gè)。你永遠(yuǎn)不會(huì)知道人們內(nèi)心的真實(shí)感受，你可能希望自己能成為另一個(gè)人，因?yàn)橐磺锌雌饋?lái)都那么完美，但事實(shí)往往并非如此。

chappychap1234
This guy I used to hang out with in elementary school was pretty overweight but I''d had the biggest crush on him.

我小學(xué)時(shí)經(jīng)常一起出去玩的那個(gè)家伙很胖，但我當(dāng)時(shí)非常迷戀他。

I lost track of him a for a few years but I high school he came back and had lost all the weight. He was pretty athletic and was generally well liked. I didnt talk to him but the guy seemed decent.

我有幾年沒(méi)有他的消息了，但是我高中的時(shí)候他回來(lái)了，體重也減輕了。他很有運(yùn)動(dòng)細(xì)胞，大家都很喜歡他。我沒(méi)有和他說(shuō)話(huà)，但那家伙看起來(lái)很正派。

I guess he liked driving like an idiot, the year after he graduated he wrapped his car around a pole. They had to use the jaws of life to pull him out of his car but it was too late, hed died on impact.

我猜他喜歡像個(gè)瘋子一樣開(kāi)車(chē)，畢業(yè)后的那年他開(kāi)車(chē)撞上電線(xiàn)上。他們不得不用救生鉗把他從車(chē)?yán)锞瘸鰜?lái)，但為時(shí)已晚，他當(dāng)場(chǎng)死亡。

There had been multiple reports that night of people calling the cops to complain about his reckless driving around town.

那天晚上有好幾個(gè)人打電話(huà)給警察抱怨他在城里亂開(kāi)車(chē)。

I just remember that chubby little boy I used to spend recess with everyday.

我對(duì)他的印象就是過(guò)去每天一起玩耍的那個(gè)胖乎乎的小男孩。

kittenmcmuffenz Kittenmcmufenz
When he hit and killed a state trooper on the freeway while the trooper was out of his car trying to remove debris from the road.

他在高速公路上撞死了一名州警，當(dāng)時(shí)這名州警正從車(chē)?yán)锍鰜?lái)，試圖清理道路上的碎片。

Edit: wow, lots of people have asked for details on location and was it so-and-so. Which tells me this has clearly happened before. I won’t give anymore details other than it wasn’t in the US.

編輯: 哇，很多人問(wèn)了事情發(fā)生的具體地點(diǎn)，是不是某某某。這表明，這種情況顯然曾經(jīng)也發(fā)生過(guò)。除了事情是發(fā)生在美國(guó)以外，我不會(huì)透露更多的細(xì)節(jié)。

Wrong_Answer_Willie?
his parents divorced and he started acting out. he went from good grades and clubs to failing and drugs.

他父母離婚導(dǎo)致他從一個(gè)學(xué)習(xí)成績(jī)優(yōu)異，經(jīng)常參加各種社團(tuán)組織的活動(dòng)的好孩子變成一個(gè)吸毒，生活失敗的壞孩子。

Phaest0n Phaestin
shit sounds like me, except i wasnt popular

這些經(jīng)歷聽(tīng)起來(lái)很像我，只不過(guò)我不是很受歡迎

Edit: My most upvoted comment is about my life falling apart in highschool lol love you Reddit have a blessed day.

編輯: 我最受歡迎的評(píng)論是關(guān)于我寫(xiě)高中生活崩潰的帖子，哈哈。愛(ài)你，Reddit，祝你有個(gè)幸福的一天。

Em1liath
I actually ran into one of the super popular kids at the local bar when I came home from college. She would never give me the time of day in high school and I for sure thought she didn’t even know I existed, but SHE approached me at the bar, super drunk, and said “hey, didn’t I go to high school with you?” She then proceeded to tell me she wished she had been nicer to more people in high school and that she has no idea what she’s doing with her life.

事實(shí)上，當(dāng)我從大學(xué)回家的時(shí)，我在當(dāng)?shù)氐木瓢衫锱龅搅艘蝗撼?jí)受歡迎的孩子。當(dāng)初念高中的時(shí)候，這群孩子中一個(gè)女孩從來(lái)沒(méi)有注意到我，我甚至認(rèn)為她根本不知道有沒(méi)有我這一號(hào)人。但是她在酒吧里主動(dòng)找到我，喝得酩酊大醉，說(shuō): “嘿，我是不是和你一起上過(guò)同一所高中? ” 并說(shuō)，她希望在高中的時(shí)候如果對(duì)更多的人再友好一點(diǎn)就好了，她不知道自己現(xiàn)在在做什么。

Honestly feels good to know that she’s thought about how she treated people back then

老實(shí)說(shuō)，知道她明白自己當(dāng)時(shí)是如何對(duì)待別人的這種感覺(jué)很好。

elpajaroquemamais Elpajaroquemais
My stepmom was an asshole in high school (and still is in some ways). She went to her high school reunx and starting talking to a girl she used to make fun of like they were friends. The girl said, "you made my life hell in high school. Why the hell would I want to talk to you?" My stepmom said, "We were just having fun?"

我繼母在高中時(shí)是個(gè)混蛋(現(xiàn)在在某些方面仍然是)。 她去參加高中同學(xué)聚會(huì)，開(kāi)始和一個(gè)她經(jīng)常取笑的女孩聊天，就好像他們是朋友一樣。 被她取笑的女孩說(shuō): “你把我的高中生活搞得一團(tuán)糟。 我為什么要跟你說(shuō)話(huà)? ” 我的繼母說(shuō)，“我們只是玩玩開(kāi)心開(kāi)心而已? ”

The girl said, "I wasn''t. Maybe you were."

女孩說(shuō): “我并不開(kāi)心，也許你是開(kāi)心了。”

APIPAMinusOneHundred?
I never saw him again after high school but a guy who bullied me told a mutual friend of ours to pass along apologies for the way he treated me. He died sometime later, I believe from cancer. I wish I could have bought him lunch or a drink. It takes a big person to make that kind of apology.

高中畢業(yè)后，我再也沒(méi)有見(jiàn)過(guò)這個(gè)曾經(jīng)欺負(fù)我的人，這個(gè)人曾經(jīng)通過(guò)一個(gè)我們共同朋友向我轉(zhuǎn)達(dá)他的歉意，表示當(dāng)初不應(yīng)該這么對(duì)待我。后來(lái)他死于癌癥， 我希望我能和他一起共進(jìn)午餐或者一起喝一杯飲料。畢竟愿意做出這樣的道歉也不是一般人能做到的。

gentlybeepingheart?
Lost control of his car when he and his best friend were driving to Taco Bell at night. He came out of it with a fractured collarbone, his friend died on the spot.

當(dāng)他和他最好的朋友晚上開(kāi)車(chē)去塔可鐘的時(shí)候，他的車(chē)在路上失控發(fā)生了車(chē)禍。他醒來(lái)時(shí)鎖骨骨折，他的朋友則當(dāng)場(chǎng)死亡。

He was really close with his friend’s parents too and vice versa. He made a few posts on Facebook on how he was an idiot and how sorry he was. The dead friend’s sister and parents made it very clear that they didn’t blame him.

他和他朋友的父母關(guān)系也很好。他在 Facebook 上發(fā)了幾條帖子，說(shuō)自己是多么的白癡，多么的抱歉。他朋友的姐姐和父母明確表示，他們并不怪他。

It was winter, black ice, and he was 100% sober. Before he was, like, a stereotypical popular dude but in the wholesome way. Dropped out of school and became addicted to painkillers. Don’t know what happened to him afterwards but it was just sad for everyone.

記得那年冬天，雪下的很大，他十分理智的決定要從學(xué)校輟學(xué)，后來(lái)開(kāi)始對(duì)止痛藥上癮。不知道現(xiàn)在他生活的怎么樣，但這對(duì)每個(gè)人來(lái)說(shuō)，這件事都是一場(chǎng)悲劇。

HereComesTheVroom?
These are the ones that hurt the most because the person who lived was 100% not at fault for it but they can’t come to terms with that fact and put it all on themselves.

活著的人是最痛苦，因?yàn)樗麄儽旧頉](méi)有錯(cuò)，也不能接受這樣的事實(shí)，還要把一切責(zé)任都?xì)w咎于自己。

One girl during high my school years was walking with her BF in her neighborhood when a guy driving a bit too fast clipped her and killed her on impact and the BF was perfectly fine. The BF couldn’t live with that and got hard into drugs after that. It was rough to see.

在我高中的時(shí)候，有一個(gè)女孩和她的男朋友在附近散步，突然被一輛速度過(guò)快的車(chē)撞到，當(dāng)場(chǎng)死亡，她男朋友則完全沒(méi)事。她男朋友無(wú)法接受這個(gè)事實(shí)，從那以后就開(kāi)始沉迷毒品?？雌饋?lái)很虐心。

My_Dog_Rolls_In_Poo?
He wrecked his car into a wall and died on prom night.

他開(kāi)車(chē)撞到墻上，在畢業(yè)舞會(huì)那天晚上不治身亡了。

billbapapa Billabapa
His dad died. It was really shitty.

他爸爸去世了，真是糟透了。

Before that he was popular, but also smart, motivated, a great athlete and actually a great guy and person. As much as you can be till you''re 15.

在他爸爸去世之前，他很受歡迎，但也很聰明，生活積極，運(yùn)動(dòng)能力強(qiáng)，是一個(gè)了不起的家伙。你想到的15歲這個(gè)年紀(jì)能擁有的優(yōu)秀品質(zhì)，他都具備。

Then his dad died right before he was going to have a football game, heart attack in the shower before they were gonna leave for it.

后來(lái)他爸爸在他去參加足球比賽之前去世了。就在他們出發(fā)準(zhǔn)備去看球賽之前，洗澡的時(shí)候突發(fā)心臟病去世了。

We heard about it later, and basically, from there, everything seemed to decline. He became angry as you could expect.

我們后來(lái)聽(tīng)說(shuō)了這件事，基本上從那時(shí)起，一切都朝著不好的方向發(fā)展。如你所料，他現(xiàn)在變得很易怒。

But he just spiralled deeper and deeper. We didn''t see him for a while, when I did catch up with him later in high school he''d been so into drugs his brain literally seemed fried.

后來(lái)他變得越來(lái)越消沉。我們有一段時(shí)間沒(méi)有見(jiàn)過(guò)他了，后來(lái)上高中的時(shí)候遇到過(guò)幾次，他當(dāng)時(shí)沉迷于毒品，他的大腦簡(jiǎn)直像是被燒焦了一樣。

It was sad for every reason.

無(wú)論如何，這都是一件悲傷的事情。

thelemonx?
This kicked me in the ass.
My twin sons are pretty popular in school. We just found out that my cancer is growing again. I''m 33, I''m not ready to die. My boys are 9, they''re not ready for me to die.I can only hope we make the best of however much time we have left together.

我的雙胞胎兒子在學(xué)校很受歡迎。剛剛發(fā)現(xiàn)我的癌細(xì)胞又開(kāi)始生長(zhǎng)了。我現(xiàn)在才33歲了，還不想死。我的孩子們也才9歲，他們還沒(méi)準(zhǔn)備好失去我這個(gè)媽媽。我只希望能充分利用好這段和他們?cè)谝黄鸬臅r(shí)間。